As Mother’s Day approaches, many fathers and children across the nation will flock to stores, eager to find the ideal gift for the special woman in their lives. They might purchase pancake mix, fresh strawberries, and artisanal coffee to whip up a delightful breakfast in bed. Others may opt to wash her car, treat her to dinner, or surprise her with tickets to a concert she’s had her eye on. Heartfelt cards will be exchanged, little ones will proudly present hand-drawn poems, and teenagers may muster the courage to give their mom a genuine hug and mumble, “Happy Mother’s Day, Mom.”
But amidst all these thoughtful gestures, I can confidently say that these are not the gifts that mothers truly seek on this special day. At least, they’re not what I’m yearning for.
What I don’t want is to be left alone with a box of chocolates and the remote in a quiet house. I also don’t need to be pampered and fussed over like a celebrity just coming off a whirlwind tour. There’s just one thing I desire for Mother’s Day: to be reassured that I’m navigating this motherhood journey correctly. Just once, I want to hear that I’m doing a good job.
Remembering the Early Days
Do you recall your very first weeks as a new mother? Those sleepless nights filled with endless cries and the sight of a tiny, scrunched-up face? When did you first feel like you were getting it right? For me, it was that magical moment when my baby looked up and smiled. That single grin conveyed everything I needed to know.
Over the years, I’ve sometimes lost sight of that joy and forgotten that I’m doing well. So, please, tell me I’m on the right track—not just on Mother’s Day, but on the days when I need to hear it the most. On those challenging days when I feel stretched thin, I need reassurance that I’m managing the chaos of parenting just fine.
The Need for Encouragement
When I’m running low on patience and my kids’ demands seem overwhelming, I crave someone to say, “You’re doing it right.” When I doubt the wisdom I share with my teenagers about relationships and life, I long to hear, “You’re doing it right.” After flipping countless pancakes, packing lunches, and serving meals to children who don’t yet understand the love behind a homemade dish, I need that encouragement.
On evenings when exhaustion sets in and regret weighs heavy, I want to hear, “You’re doing it right.” When I’m surrounded by dirty dishes and laundry and only see failure, I wish someone would tell me, “You’re doing it right.” And when I feel like I can’t give another moment of my time to raising boys into wonderful men, I simply need to hear, “You’re doing it right.”
A Call to Action
I believe I echo the sentiments of countless mothers when I say that a single day of recognition amidst a year of struggles isn’t enough. Please, let those words come more often. This Sunday, if your own mother is still in your life, reach out and say, “You did it right.”
Take a moment to encourage that single mother who often feels overwhelmed. Tell her, “You’re doing it right.” When you see a young mom struggling with little ones at the grocery store, give her a pat on the shoulder and say, “You’re doing it right.” And to the special needs mom who is a superhero in her child’s life, remind her that she’s doing an incredible job.
Even if you have a friend who is expecting her first baby, rather than sharing tales of sleepless nights, simply hug her and say, “You’re gonna do it right.”
Happy Mother’s Day to every mom out there who may feel like they’re falling short. Here’s my gift to you: “YOU’RE DOING IT RIGHT.”
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