In a humorous yet sobering segment, John Oliver delves into the complexities surrounding the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), which stands as our current best attempt at providing new mothers with job security. The FMLA ensures that mothers can take 12 weeks of leave post-birth, but only if they have been with their employer for at least a year and if that employer has a workforce of 50 or more. Oliver highlights the glaring gap this creates, noting that 40% of workers do not benefit from this federal protection. “If a worker without paid leave goes into labor at work,” he quips, “she better hope it’s during her lunch break and that her colleagues don’t mind a little chaos in the break room.”
Passed in 1993 amid fierce opposition from various lawmakers, the FMLA was seen by some as a threat to American business. Yet, contrary to their fears, it didn’t lead to economic ruin. However, the fight for comprehensive family leave is far from over. While many of us may have completed our family planning, it’s time to consider what kind of support our children will have. They deserve more than what we received:
- Freelancers and contract workers receive no benefits, lacking even a promise of job security after childbirth.
- Those entitled to the 12 weeks of leave are not guaranteed pay unless their employer has a specific policy for it, often forcing them to dip into vacation or sick time.
- Employees at companies with less than 50 workers find themselves out of luck.
Reflecting on her own experience, the author recalls her time in television production. After the birth of her son, she sought to extend her maternity leave for another month—unpaid—after receiving verbal approval from her superiors. However, when she reached out to HR, she was met with a firm refusal. “That’s not how it works,” the HR representative told her, adding, “You’ll find that going back to work is easier than you think.” This comment is particularly unhelpful to a new mother trying to balance her professional and personal life.
Oliver further highlights the inconsistency in family leave policies by pointing to Major League Baseball, which allows players just three days of paternity leave. When Daniel Rivera, a player for the New York Knights, missed the first two games of the season due to his wife going into labor, he faced backlash from commentators and fans alike. “Some even suggested a preemptive C-section,” Oliver joked, “as if baseball comes before family.”
Why is society so reluctant to acknowledge that parents need time with their children? Paid family leave isn’t a radical concept; in fact, 189 countries offer it. And yet, America, which often laments the lack of parental involvement in children’s lives, forces women to make impossible choices between their jobs and their families. If financial constraints prevent a mother from taking unpaid leave, the decision is often made for her.
While it may be too late for those of us already navigating parenthood, we must turn our focus toward future generations. Let’s stop the hollow praise that mothers receive on Mother’s Day. “You deserve the very best, moms, but don’t expect to get it,” Oliver concludes.
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Summary
John Oliver critiques the shortcomings of the Family and Medical Leave Act, highlighting its limited protections for new parents, especially freelancers and those in smaller companies. He underscores the need for comprehensive family leave and the societal hypocrisy surrounding parental responsibilities, urging us to advocate for better support for future generations.