For my son’s birthday, I hosted a sleepover for him and six of his friends. Through their antics and conversations, I gathered some fascinating observations about this age group:
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Girls? What Girls?
When these boys gather, discussions about girls are a no-show. They might be using code words, turning conversations into video game talk. If that’s the case, they’re definitely talking about girls. -
Wrestling Opportunities Galore
These boys seize every chance to grapple with each other, often mimicking moves they’ve seen on TV. If someone gets hurt, they show concern—unless there’s no blood, in which case the injured party is accused of faking it. As a parent, your choices are limited: stay out of it or step in. I tried to referee and ended up with an accidental kick to the groin. -
Horror Films Are a Hit
After watching scary movies, some need the lights on to sleep, which I find surprisingly sweet. -
Debate Champions
They love to argue about anything—cats vs. dogs, video game preferences, and even clothing choices. Their debates are often hilariously based on false information. I once overheard, “Jeans don’t let your skin breathe.” -
Bragging Rights
Boys this age take pride in claims that often lack substance. One friend boasted about his quesadilla-making skills, while another insisted he could rake an entire yard in seven minutes. -
Brand Loyalty to the Max
Their preferences are intense. One boy wouldn’t drink 7Up, only Sprite, while another insisted that Mountain Dew was the only acceptable drink. They even recognized the brand of nacho cheese chips—clearly, not the right kind. -
Natural Mediators
All disputes are resolved within their circle. They manage their own conflicts, and parental interference is usually unnecessary. -
Floor Sleeping Pros
These boys can sleep soundly on the floor without any bedding, as if they were camping out in an airport. -
Deep Sleepers
Some of them can sleep through anything, including a competitive Nerf basketball game happening right above them. -
Sock Neglect
Socks are left strewn throughout the house, and when parents arrive, they ignore reminders like, “Hey, you left your socks behind.” -
Unique Sock Aroma
The scent of their socks is unforgettable—think a mix of stinky cheese, Fritos, and mildew. The smell lingers even after the socks are washed. -
Charming and Courteous
While some boys are polite and express gratitude for meals, others seem indifferent, leaving without a word of thanks.
Having a 12-year-old boy in my life for a year has been truly rewarding. This age is a fascinating blend of childhood and adolescence, and their carefree spirit is a reminder to embrace change. Also, it’s a good prompt to occasionally wash those socks!
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Summary:
From playful wrestling to deep discussions about brands, observing 12-year-old boys during a sleepover reveals a world filled with unique behaviors and friendships. Their carefree nature serves as a reminder of the joys of childhood while also highlighting the importance of navigating change gracefully.