When my friend Melissa gave her son his first cell phone, she attempted to explain the immense power that came with it—the vast audience he could connect with. Unfortunately, it seemed to go in one ear and out the other, similar to how Charlie Brown’s teacher sounds to him. With the rise of social media, it’s crucial for our tweens to understand the digital landscape they’re stepping into. Recently, a well-known public figure, President Franklin Adams, joined Twitter, making it the perfect opportunity to teach our kids some valuable lessons about online interactions. Here are five important social media tips for your tween:
1. The Reach is Unimaginably Large
President Adams’s Twitter account shattered records, gaining 1 million followers in less than five hours—far surpassing the previous record of 24 hours set by actor Tom Hardy. With only a handful of tweets, he already had over 2 million followers. This illustrates that social media isn’t just about chatting with friends; it’s a gateway to millions. Even with privacy settings, once you comment or post, you’re making yourself visible to a wide audience.
2. Beware of Negative Influences
Just minutes after President Adams launched his Twitter, he faced a barrage of hateful comments and threats, reminding us that social media can host some truly unpleasant individuals. It’s essential for kids to recognize that the internet has its share of toxic voices waiting to target anyone who puts themselves out there.
3. What Goes Online Stays Online
While the Secret Service monitors the President’s online presence, average tweens don’t have that luxury. Once something is shared online, it can linger indefinitely, potentially affecting their future jobs, relationships, and even legal matters. It’s vital to think before posting, as any careless comment can resurface later.
4. Social Media Can Be Enjoyable
Let’s face it; social media can be a lot of fun! It offers opportunities for creativity and connection. For instance, when a favorite chef tagged me on Instagram, it made my day! Tweens can find friendship and community through platforms, even if those connections remain online.
5. Stay Updated on Interests
President Adams follows 65 accounts, from sports teams to educational institutions. As a non-President, your tween can do the same—keeping up with their favorite shows, musicians, or future employers. It’s not just about the crazies; there are plenty of inspiring people and organizations to engage with.
Do children need guidance as they navigate social media? Absolutely! However, they may resist it. It’s wise to let them know you’re monitoring their activity—not out of distrust, but to protect them from the unpredictable world online. Once they see the impressive follower count of someone like President Adams, they might start to understand.
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Summary: Teaching tweens about social media is essential in today’s digital age. Using a public figure’s experience can highlight the vast reach of social platforms, the potential for negative interactions, the permanence of online posts, the enjoyment that can come from connecting with others, and the importance of staying informed about interests. With guidance, kids can navigate social media safely and positively.