You know how older generations love to say that we modern moms fret too much? Well, it’s hard not to when there’s so much on our plates: organic food choices, the right after-school activities, and the occasional frustration that leads us to raise our voices—sound familiar? But were our mothers really as carefree as they seemed? Before I add “I worry too much” to my ever-growing list of concerns, let’s take a moment to consider that those moms of the ’70s and ’80s had their own unique challenges.
Old-School Feminine Products
I distinctly remember flipping through my fifth-grade puberty book, which was awkwardly titled “Growing Up and Liking It.” It had outdated references to “belted” versus “beltless” pads—terms I’m still not sure I want to understand. I can only imagine that our mothers had a whole world of knowledge about these relics of the past that we simply don’t have to deal with today.
Seat Belts? What Seat Belts?
Let’s be real—those moms were not only concerned about safety; they were navigating chaos. Picture trying to drive while simultaneously managing a squirmy toddler in the back seat. Today, our cars are like mobile sanctuaries, secured with seatbelts and car seats. Sure, the kids may be screaming, but at least they’re not attempting to vault into the front seat or play tag with their siblings.
The Pantyhose Dilemma
Do people even wear pantyhose anymore? I avoid them at all costs. Sure, they require shaving, but let’s not forget how our mothers suffered through hot summer days, stuck in thick, constricting L’eggs in a non-air-conditioned car. Their struggles remind me that we’ve come a long way in comfort.
Color Schemes That Make You Cringe
Brown, orange, and avocado green were all the rage back then. It’s a wonder anyone survived the fashion choices of the era!
Uncomfortable Clothing
Yoga pants and leggings—thank goodness for these modern miracles! While we do enjoy dressing up occasionally, it’s hard to prioritize style when you’re juggling a toddler, spilled snacks, and the occasional mess. Those stretchy pants are a blessing!
In all honesty, we might be overthinking things a bit more than our mothers did. However, the next time I feel that familiar twinge of anxiety, I’ll remind myself to look back instead of forward. Rather than worrying about how my kids will turn out, I’ll reflect on my own childhood antics and the way my parents handled my emotional outbursts as just part of the norm.
I can’t help but chuckle at my mother-in-law, who humorously chased her kids around with a wooden spoon for their mischief. They turned out to be wonderful adults, just like my brothers, who drove my mom to her wit’s end. I hope that one day, I too will be that calm, wise grandma—probably in my trusty yoga pants.
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In summary, while we may feel overwhelmed in our parenting journey, a little perspective can help us realize that every generation has its unique set of worries. Embracing our past can lighten our load today.