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Why My Vibrator Is My Go-To Over My Partner
I have a little secret: I can’t seem to part ways with my trusty BOB—my Battery Operated Boyfriend, if you’re not in the loop. Despite my best efforts to set it aside, I find it impossible. There’s something incredibly fulfilling about indulging in pleasure without the hassle of planning a Date Night, worrying about being overheard by the kids, or pretending to be engaged with my husband after a long day filled with chores and responsibilities.
Sometimes, a solo adventure is exactly what I need to recharge. There’s no need to navigate the delicate dance of ensuring my husband has his turn while I get mine. No hurt feelings when life’s busyness leads to turning down romantic moments. It’s simply me, a hint of desire, and BOB.
It’s quick, uncomplicated, and serves as an immediate stress reliever. For any overwhelmed mom, isn’t that a better remedy than chocolate or a glass of wine? My husband understands this—mostly. He knows that as a mature woman, I’m more than capable of addressing my needs, even when parenting drains our energy and enthusiasm. I’m aware he has a stash of magazines with glamorous models tucked away, and he knows about my little companion hidden in my dresser.
I sometimes wonder if he keeps track of how much more frequently BOB gets action compared to him. While I probably won’t admit anytime soon that my trusty device has had more fun with me in recent months than he has, this little secret has certainly helped me unwind.
I do look forward to the day when the demands of parenthood don’t deplete my energy, allowing me to enjoy my relationship more. But for now, while we’re navigating the challenges of life as busy parents, I’m sticking with BOB for that essential dose of pleasure. Otherwise, I’d just be a robot, churning out laundry and lunches without a moment’s joy.
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In summary, while I cherish my relationship with my husband, my trusty vibrator serves as a necessary outlet for my pleasure in this busy stage of life. Finding that balance is key, and having a little extra help makes all the difference.