The conversation surrounding standardized testing has certainly sparked intense debate, especially during testing season. In my community, nearly 15 percent of parents opted out, leading to a wide range of opinions on the effectiveness of these assessments and how best to navigate the situation. Ultimately, we decided that our son would not participate in the tests.
Despite the controversy, some people still struggle to understand why so many families, including ours, made this choice. One individual is Sarah Johnson, a dedicated sixth-grade teacher from Connecticut who recently expressed her views on why all students should be required to take standardized tests. With her 18 years of teaching experience and a master’s degree in education, Sarah speaks from a place of knowledge, which makes her misunderstanding of the “opt-out movement” all the more surprising.
She seems to believe that opting out stems from children feeling overwhelmed or simply not wanting to take the tests. However, that is far from the truth. My decision to opt out wasn’t based on my son’s stress or dislike for testing. After all, he also isn’t thrilled about doing homework, brushing his teeth, or cleaning up after himself, but those are non-negotiable parts of life.
Sarah argues that we are sending the wrong message to our children by allowing them to avoid what they find difficult. Yet she misses a crucial point. Many of us believe that standardized testing fails to accurately reflect a student’s strengths and weaknesses, or the effectiveness of their teachers. In New York, for example, 557 school principals expressed concern about the ambiguity of test questions, highlighting the confusion among educators regarding the answers.
While I have traditionally performed well on tests, my decision to opt out isn’t a reflection of my son’s abilities or preparation. He won’t be taking exams that will aid in his college admission process, nor will they benefit him in any meaningful way. By opting out, I wanted to send a clear message to the Department of Education. It’s worth noting that if it were just my son opting out alone, I might have reconsidered, as it wouldn’t have had the same impact and he could have felt isolated.
During testing, my son and other students who opted out were sent to the cafeteria to read quietly. Although he found the experience dull and unengaging, we opted not to let him join his friends at the diner. Our goal was to teach him the importance of standing by his principles, even when it was uncomfortable.
Life offers plenty of opportunities for him to learn about perseverance and hard work. He had already faced challenges before testing season, and there will be ample chances for him to navigate difficulties in the future.
When he discussed the tests with us, he presented the same arguments we had already considered, demonstrating his understanding of the issues at hand. We felt proud and supported him, not in a way that led him to the diner, but rather to the cafeteria, despite the uncomfortable seating and lack of entertainment.
In essence, our choice to opt out was about teaching him not to shy away from challenges, but to stand up for what he believes in—a lesson I hope will resonate with him for years to come.
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Summary
In this article, I share my reasoning behind opting my son out of standardized testing. The decision stems not from a dislike of tests or stress but from a belief that these assessments do not accurately reflect student abilities or teacher effectiveness. By opting out, we aimed to teach him the importance of standing up for one’s principles.