Rush. If popular culture is any guide, the music of Rush has a unique ability to help men articulate their emotions. Just think of films like I Love You, Man or shows like Freaks and Geeks, where characters express their feelings through Rush’s powerful lyrics. In an episode of Togetherness, Mark’s character picks up on his friend’s downcast demeanor and launches into an impassioned analysis of “Tom Sawyer,” instantly lifting his spirits as they bond over an impromptu air drum solo.
This month marks Rush’s 40th anniversary tour, and even if you aren’t a fan, you likely recognize their influence on emotional expression among men. It’s a remarkable gift to have!
As I approach a decade of marriage, I’ve come to realize that I’ve been trying to foster better communication with my husband by encouraging conversations, while I’ve had his Rush albums at my fingertips all along.
Do you want to connect with your partner on a deeper level? Try tapping into the essence of Rush for inspiration. Here are some tracks to help express those sentiments:
- When You Want to Know What’s on His Mind: “Distant Early Warning”
“You sometimes drive me crazy, but I worry about you.” - When You Want Him to Understand Your Feelings: “The Trees”
“There is unrest in the forest, there is trouble with the trees / For the maples want more sunlight, and the oaks ignore their pleas.” - When You Want to Drop Subtle Hints About a Gift: “Red Barchetta”
“Suddenly ahead of me, across the mountainside / A gleaming alloy air car, shoots towards me, two lanes wide.” - When You’re Hoping for an ‘L’ Word Moment: “Closer to the Heart”
“You can be the captain, I will draw the chart / Sailing into destiny, closer to the heart.” - When It’s Time for a Serious Commitment Discussion: “Force Ten”
“Tough times demand tough talk demand tough hearts demand tough songs…” - When You Need Him to Share His Thoughts (and Test His Knowledge of You): “Limelight”
“All the world’s a stage and we are merely players, performers and portrayers…” - When You Need to Discuss Family Planning: “Vital Signs”
“Everybody got mixed feelings, about the function and the form.” - When You Feel Like You’re Drifting Apart: “Subdivisions”
“Any escape might help to smooth the unattractive truth.” - When You Want Him to Rediscover That Spark: “Time Stand Still”
“Freeze this moment a little bit longer, make each sensation a little bit stronger.” - When You Need Some Alone Time: “Fly by Night”
“The change of a season, is enough of a reason, to want to get away.” - When You’re Ready to Reconnect: “Ghost of a Chance”
“Somehow we found each other, somehow we have stayed, in a state of grace.” - When You Want to Enjoy a Dance Together (Even If You’re Thinking of Another Band): “Freewill”
“Genetic blends, with uncertain ends, on a fortune hunt that’s far too fleet.” - When You Wish He’d Take a Break from Rush: “The Spirit of Radio”
“One likes to believe in the freedom of music.”
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In summary, using the powerful lyrics and themes of Rush can serve as a unique tool to foster communication and connection in your marriage. Whether you’re expressing your feelings, hinting at gifts, or addressing deeper issues, let the music guide your conversations.