Embracing the Reality That I Can’t Shield My Son From Every Bump and Bruise

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He was crying. Our home is usually peaceful, so hearing his tears made me feel like a real villain. After I wiped his cheeks and took a moment to collect my thoughts, I gently explained, “I just want to keep you safe, sweetheart.” He sniffled and munched on his waffle.

Deep down, I know that I can’t prevent my son from every little mishap (not even close), yet I often think I can spare him from some of the scrapes and tumbles—if only he would just…listen to me. But therein lies the challenge. Children don’t always heed advice. Not now, and certainly not when they’re teenagers. Accidents will happen—broken noses, scraped knees, and even broken hearts. So how do I guide him to make wise choices when it truly matters? How do I ensure he holds my hand while navigating those steep concrete stairs? Or refrains from speeding on icy roads right after getting his license?

As I helped him into his coat for preschool, I said, “Keep your fingers back, honey,” while zipping it up. But he didn’t. My timing was off, and I accidentally caught one of his little fingers in the zipper. More tears and a wave of mommy guilt washed over me. I kissed his cheeks, wiped his tears, and tended to his fingertip.

“We’re having a tough morning, Mommy,” he said, settling onto my lap.
“It’s not that bad—it’s just a tiny scratch,” I reassured him, hoping for a future filled with only minor bumps.

There’s a quote by Elizabeth Stone that resonates deeply: “Having children is deciding forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.” It’s not just that; it’s like your heart is out there playing Frogger on a busy highway, and you have no control. All you can do is use your voice and set a good example. You plead, “Please listen to me.” Yet, sometimes, they simply won’t.

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In summary, as parents, we often grapple with the reality that we can’t shield our children from every scrape or heartache. We strive to guide them, hoping they will listen, but we must also accept that some lessons are learned the hard way.