Hey there, buddy,
You might recall that I penned a letter for Mother’s Day, pleading with you to behave so your mom could kick back and enjoy her day. This time, I’m writing about Father’s Day, and I’ve got a different message. This one’s about me, so I can express myself a bit more openly.
Father’s Day: Just Another Day
First off, Father’s Day doesn’t hold much significance for me, at least until football season kicks off. Honestly, this Sunday is just another day in the week for me. And guess what? You don’t need to fret about it. I’m not looking for a tie, a homemade card, golf lessons, or even a subscription to a beer-of-the-month club. I don’t even need you to be on your best behavior (though, you should always strive for that!). Just relax and be yourself.
Understanding My Dad
I know, it might sound strange. As a child, I was baffled that your granddad never asked for anything on Father’s Day, Christmas, or even his birthday—aside from the wish that his kids would get along. To kids, gifts are everything, so it was hard for me to comprehend why he wouldn’t want any. But now, as a father myself, I totally get where he was coming from.
The True Gifts of Fatherhood
Let’s face it: kids aren’t exactly the best gift-givers. Plus, once you become a parent, you realize that the most treasured gifts aren’t wrapped in a box. It’s the goodnight hugs I receive, the laughter from tickling you, or the occasional extra half-hour of sleep you grant me on the weekends. These moments aren’t tied to holidays; they’re simply you being your wonderful self, and that’s truly what I cherish every day.
Just Another Sunday
This Sunday being labeled as Father’s Day doesn’t change anything for me. It’s just another Sunday, Saturday, or weekday. I don’t require a fancy brunch to acknowledge my efforts or commitment, especially not from you. Why should you feel the need to reward me for merely being a loving father?
I’m secure in knowing I’m not a terrible dad. I’m not claiming to be the greatest father ever, but I know I’m doing alright because I genuinely love being your dad. I don’t need any public acknowledgment to continue doing what I love—even on those tougher days, like during potty training.
What About Mother’s Day?
Now, I know you might be wondering: does this mean you can skip your mom on Mother’s Day? That’s really up to her. Spoiler alert: probably not! And don’t think we’re getting rid of Father’s Day either. Even though I don’t need validation for my role, these celebrations are more about enjoying moments with our loved ones. Why do you think you get showered with gifts during Christmas? It’s all about seeing you happy, and that’s the only present I truly want from you this weekend.
But remember, Father’s Day is not your responsibility; it’s more about what your mom wants to do for me.
Love,
Your Dad
P.S. I wouldn’t mind one of those beer-of-the-month subscriptions… and maybe tickets to see Mad Max: Fury Road. Just mention it to your mom!
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Summary
In a heartfelt letter to his son, a father discusses his views on Father’s Day, expressing that he doesn’t need gifts or recognition to validate his role as a dad. Instead, he values the everyday moments spent together. He emphasizes that Father’s Day is not a burden for his son and encourages him to enjoy being himself while reminding him that these special occasions are more about celebrating loved ones.