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10 Reasons Why Tween Boys Are Incredible
This past summer marked a significant change for me—the summer I gained a tween boy. One moment, my son was surrounded by a mountain of stuffed animals, and the next, he was sprawled out on his bed, engrossed in a YouTube video about Minecraft, with not a single plushie in sight. (Don’t worry, his trusty buddy, Mr. Fluff, is still around—just not in the limelight.) The transformation happened so quickly! While he has always had a knack for rolling his eyes and delivering some cheeky remarks, my newly minted 11-year-old has truly elevated the game this summer. I often find myself in a slight panic, realizing that I may very well be on the cusp of having a full-fledged teenager on my hands. The train is barreling down the tracks, and I can hear the whistle—complete with attitude.
Despite the challenges that come with this new phase, there are a lot of great things about having a tween boy:
- Shared Understanding of Privacy
While I still have little to no privacy (and still can’t manage to pee alone), my tween is now on my side regarding this issue. He firmly believes that seeing me in the nude is nothing short of traumatizing, and he keeps his distance when he thinks there’s a chance. If he accidentally catches a glimpse, he covers his eyes and lets out a dramatic groan. I appreciate it, and yet… hallelujah! - Sensible Sleep Patterns
Unlike young children who fight bedtime yet rise at the crack of dawn, my tween now sleeps in as long as he can and stays up late reading. This behavior finally makes sense to me and feels like a long-awaited relief. - Independence and Self-Care
Gone are the days of diapers! He’s capable of washing his own hair (I hope he’s actually doing it most days?) and can prepare food, operate the microwave, and dress himself. He can even swim! It’s a win for me after years of parenting small children. If he could just master the art of outfit coordination, we’d be golden. - Quieter Moments
He whines and sulks, of course, but overall, he’s quieter than before. He often retreats to a corner with his earbuds in, which is a trade-off I can live with. - A Sense of Humor
His wit has blossomed! He can genuinely make me laugh with his clever observations. Just this week, while watching his brothers head toward the kiddie pool “because it’s warm,” he smirked and said, “I wonder if they know why it’s warm?” I truly enjoy his perspective. - Competent Helper
I can count on him to help carry baby gear, luggage, and even juggle takeout and grocery bags. It’s like gaining a pair of extra hands—though those hands tend to complain, “What am I, your servant?” (Yes, yes you are. Here’s another bag, my little helper!) - Appreciation for My Music
When it comes to car rides, he sides with me in the great debate over music. He prefers my choice of Imagine Dragons and Maroon 5 over yet another screening of “Wreck-It Ralph”! - Potty Training Success
Need I say more? - Rare Sweet Moments
Occasionally, he surprises me with tender gestures that are even more special because they are infrequent. Just the other day, as I dropped him off at camp, he hugged me tightly and whispered, “I’m going to miss you,” then turned to his baby sister, saying, “Don’t grow up too fast.” It nearly reduced me to tears. - Adventurous Palate
He’s developing a taste for adult food! He’ll order salads with his meals and actually eat them. Sure, he still has his quirks, but he’s surprisingly open to trying new foods. I’m hopeful he won’t be taking dates to McDonald’s in the future.
I recognize that I’m in a sweet spot with my son—he’s no longer that unreasonable little kid, yet not quite the obstinate teenager. This is a delightful time where he’s an enjoyable companion while still being my little boy. Although I’m starting to see hints of the teenage attitude that might push me to consider a new relationship with a hair colorist down the road, I’m cherishing these moments. Reflecting on the baby and toddler he once was, I never could have imagined this incredible young man. Enjoying this phase, even if it’s temporary, is what truly matters.
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Summary
Tween boys bring a unique blend of independence, humor, and companionship to their families. From developing their own sleep patterns to helping with chores and appreciating adult food, this phase is filled with delightful moments that make parenting rewarding. As they navigate this transitional period, parents can embrace the changes while cherishing the bond they share.