As I approach the big 4-0, I’ve found myself feeling a newfound sense of wisdom—not in an otherworldly way, but rather as a savvy urban woman embracing life. The surprising source of this enlightenment? My spirited 3-year-old son, who is blissfully unaware of the concept of middle age. Here are some of the invaluable lessons he’s imparted:
1. Daily Hair Washing is Overrated
For years, I puzzled over why my hair always looked best right before I jumped in the shower. It never occurred to me to simply enjoy that natural beauty without washing it away. My son, on the other hand, rocks his tousled hair for days, proving that sometimes less is more. Think of how much shampoo I could save!
2. Books Can Handle a Little Water
A little water damage doesn’t ruin a book; it adds character. The gentle crinkle on page 10 gives it a vintage vibe, much like the well-loved toys from childhood. Sure, we squabble about dust jackets—I’m Team Protect, he’s Team Free Spirit—but it’s a fun tug-of-war that shows how much we cherish our stories.
3. Color Boldly
I’ve learned that pressing down hard while coloring leads to vibrant creations. Avoiding that perfect Crayola tip out of fear only results in bland artwork. Back in college, I hesitated to use that new lipstick, while my friend gleefully embraced hers. Whether it’s a crayon or a bold career move, taking risks is what truly matters.
4. Confidence is Key to Style
While women’s magazines often suggest that confidence comes from fitting into a specific mold, my son shows that true style comes from self-acceptance. He mismatches outfits, gives himself spontaneous haircuts, and struts with a joyful confidence that is inspiring. He reminds me that style is all about embracing who you are.
5. Cuddles are Essential
In my busy younger years, I lost touch with the joy of cuddling. But after sharing a bed with a little one, I rediscovered the magic of closeness. Whether it’s snuggling with my husband or wrapping my arms around my son as he drifts off to sleep, these moments are a sweet reminder of life’s simple pleasures.
6. The Art of Letter Writing
Sitting down with my son as he learns to write has rekindled my appreciation for the written word. Guiding him through each letter and patiently waiting for his words to take shape has strengthened my mental resilience. Writing letters to friends becomes a joyful endeavor rather than a chore, allowing me to slow down and savor my thoughts. If you’re interested in deeper resources on pregnancy and home insemination, you may want to check out this excellent guide on IUI.
These lessons from my 3-year-old are just the tip of the iceberg. As we navigate the ups and downs of parenting together, I’m excited to learn even more. I have about 36 hours on the clock, and I plan to spend a good chunk of that time cuddling.