7 Essential Skills to Embrace in Middle Age

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What does middle age truly mean? For me, it’s not just about turning 40—an age I’ve recently reached, with plans to be vibrant and active well into my 80s. Instead, it signifies the onset of a decade that holds immense potential. After spending my 20s lost in dreams and my 30s in the whirlwind of raising a small child, I’m eager to channel my energy into doing meaningful things during my 40s.

There’s always been a persistent whisper in my mind, urging me to seize the time and develop new skills. As I celebrated my 40th birthday, that whisper transformed into a clarion call. It’s time for me to tackle the skills I’ve long overlooked. Here’s a glimpse of what I hope to master in this decade of growth:

1. Unravel the Mystery of Classic Radio: I plan to dive deep into the enigma that is “A Prairie Home Companion.” Is Garrison Keillor playing an elaborate prank, or am I simply not grasping the brilliance he offers? I’m determined to find out—even if it means enduring countless barber shop quartets singing about obscure Midwestern products while completing my chores every Saturday night.
2. Watch a Surreal Film Without Distraction: My husband is a movie enthusiast, which has led to some humorous tension due to my less adventurous tastes. Although I’ve tried to engage with surreal films like “The Discreet Charm of the Bourgeoisie,” I often find myself distracted. This decade, I aim to enjoy films without the urge to multitask or zone out.
3. Master the Language of Fabrics: Shopping online for clothes shouldn’t feel like a foreign language class! Terms like slub and modal leave me bewildered. I want to become savvy enough to navigate the fabric world confidently, especially when browsing stores like The Gap.
4. Cook Without Constant Reference to Recipes: I dream of whipping up meals with the same ease as the heroines in culinary movies who sip red wine while everything simmers perfectly. Instead, I find myself glued to recipes, second-guessing every step. This year, I will learn to sauté mushrooms and other dishes without turning to my notes every five minutes.
5. Hone My Sewing Skills: I dabbled in sewing as a child but never advanced my skills. With my child soon entering school, I aspire to be the mom who can mend clothes and craft Halloween costumes. My husband picked up sewing quickly, and I plan to catch up—starting with making outfits from our living room curtains. Note to self: Buy curtains.
6. Learn Multiple Ways to Style a Scarf: Fashion holds a certain allure, especially when I see stylish older women effortlessly draped in scarves. There are countless techniques to tie a scarf, and I want to learn at least six of them to enhance my own wardrobe.
7. Become Tech-Savvy: Technology can be daunting. I often struggle with simple tasks, like programming the DVR or properly loading the dishwasher—my husband usually has to redo it. I aim to become more competent, so I don’t accidentally embarrass myself with our outdated answering machine.

These are just a few of the skills I wish to develop during my middle age journey. I plan to keep dancing through my 50s, so there’s a lot to achieve within these years!

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In summary, middle age opens up a world of opportunities to acquire new skills and insights that can enrich our lives. Embrace the journey!