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Awakening
You finally regain consciousness, and your dehydrated, sleep-deprived body starts to register reality. Your eyelids have yet to detach from your eyeballs, and a mental inventory of your condition begins. Headache? Check. Nausea? Not yet? Oh dear, this could be a slow burn. Should’ve hired that babysitter to stay the night. Wait, did I really dance like a fool for our neighbor’s kid? Ouch, and the headache is back! -
Seclusion
Inevitably, you’ll hear the pitter-patter of little feet outside your bedroom door. There are hushed whispers—a scheme is unfolding! Plot away, my little darlings! Just find some crayons and decorate the walls, but please, keep your adorable selves out of here for just a little longer. Oh, please don’t come in yet! -
Bargaining
If you think hard enough, perhaps you can leverage some bargaining power with your partner before the kids burst through the door demanding attention. You vaguely recall a passionate moment with your spouse last night (oh please, let it have been after the sitter left!). So, dear husband, still lost in dreamland, you’re on kid duty this morning. -
Courage
The sound of your youngest wailing and the scent of burnt pancakes finally pull you from your cozy cocoon. Alright, it’s manageable. A bit dizzy, but it could be worse. You make your way downstairs, grab a Coke, and then half a cup of coffee—suddenly it’s the Morning Show with Mommy, still in last night’s makeup. It’s not just any mommy; it’s the fun, silly mommy! I can handle this! -
Breakdown
Without warning, your cheerful demeanor crumbles, and you feel like you might disintegrate right there in the kitchen. The only remedy? Your bed. But wait—there’s a soccer match, a baseball game, a birthday bash, and a meal to prepare for a new mom (who you definitely owe). The only pain reliever in the house is for kids, and the lone Alka-Seltzer you discover is brown and unappetizing. -
Gratitude and Regret
These two feelings often coexist for the hungover parent. You start to reflect on your reckless choices. What if an emergency occurred? (My spouse sleeps through anything, but surely he’d wake for that?) On the other hand, you can’t help but feel thankful for your partner, who may not have been the most helpful in the baby’s first year but is a champ when it comes to supporting a hungover mom. -
Near Sleep
Finally, the promise of sweet slumber awaits. By the end of the day, you’re utterly spent. After chugging a gallon of water, popping an Advil (thank you, wonderful husband), and taking a refreshing shower, can anything feel more heavenly than your bed? -
Commitment to Change
This is a promise you make to yourself: under no circumstances will this happen again. It’s simply not worth it (fade to black)…
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Summary:
Navigating the chaos of a hangover while parenting is a wild ride, from the initial realization of your condition to the ultimate commitment to never repeat it. Each stage presents its own challenges, from trying to hide from the kids to bargaining with your spouse. In the end, you find a mix of gratitude and regret, all while longing for rest.