As weekends and school breaks roll around, I often find myself channeling my inner cruise director. Much like Julie, the cruise director from the beloved ’70s show, I feel it’s my duty to keep things exciting for my family. Between the hustle of kids’ sports, birthday celebrations, and social engagements, my husband and I navigate our busy lives, often passing each other in the driveway like two ships in the night.
With free time at a premium, I scramble to fill every gap in our calendar with activities—family outings, trips to visit grandparents, or even bowling nights. It’s my mission to ensure that our days off are packed with fun! So, when I spotted an empty slot on the calendar, I felt an overwhelming urge to plan something.
One Saturday morning, after my first sip of coffee, I checked our kitchen calendar and noticed that February 16 was completely blank. According to Webster’s Dictionary, “nothing” means “not any thing.” And for the first time, I decided to embrace that definition. I allowed us to experience a day of doing nothing.
Initially, it felt strange to have such a blank slate, but my three kids were intrigued when they woke up and asked, “What are we doing today?” I replied, “Nothing.” The surprise on their faces was priceless.
Inspired by a book I used to read to them, about a resourceful man named Joseph who turned his overcoat into various useful items, my kids took this nothing day and transformed it into something wonderful. They lounged in their pajamas, rediscovered board games that had long been forgotten, and even dived into books that weren’t part of their school assignments. They found joy in each other’s company, playing video games together and sharing hearty laughs.
As evening approached, we all gathered for a family movie night. The best part? My kids, who usually seem to live in their own worlds, bonded and enjoyed a day filled with laughter and togetherness. It was a heartwarming reminder that sometimes, doing nothing can be truly meaningful.
In the days that followed, I slipped back into my old routine of planning activities, with tickets to a hockey game and a ski trip on the agenda. However, I’ve made a promise to myself to carve out another nothing day soon. After all, there’s nothing wrong with a day dedicated to simply enjoying each other’s presence.
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Summary
Embracing a day of nothing can lead to unexpected joys and family bonding. By stepping back from the busy schedules, families can rediscover simple pleasures and create lasting memories together.