Parenting
Updated: September 1, 2023
Originally Published: August 2, 2015
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Our Love for Our Kids is Boundless
We cherish our children immensely. They’re on our minds constantly, whether we’re at work or caught up in a meeting. We worry about their well-being at school, at home with a caregiver, or in daycare. Every working mom wants the best for her kids, and while our expressions of love might look different—like sending a quick text after school or video calling from a business trip—the sentiment remains the same. There are days when not being able to pick them up from the bus stop weighs heavily on us. We sometimes fantasize about rushing home to bake cookies and don an apron, but we quickly remind ourselves that such an ideal is a myth. We are doing the best we can in our unique circumstances, and we show our love in our own ways, such as sending that heartfelt text or giving them an extra hug before bedtime. Life can be complicated, but our love doesn’t have to be. -
The Importance of Community Among Moms
Just last Friday, I was running late to pick up my kids from school. Thankfully, another mom was there waiting, and another even offered to pick them up if I was delayed. Just five minutes! Back in my day, my brother was left at a strip mall for an hour without us realizing it. I feel grateful for the support of other moms who help fill in the gaps. I often find myself juggling appointments, deadlines, and the occasional forgotten PTA payment. I might not make it to every event or volunteer opportunity, but I need my fellow moms to include me. It’s essential to create a community where we can lean on each other.So, the next time you find yourself at a school event or the bus stop, take a moment to introduce yourself to that busy mom in heels or scrubs. She might seem overwhelmed, but she’s likely craving connection and friendship. Many of us have felt the weight of motherhood from day one, realizing that we need each other more than ever.
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Saying No Doesn’t Diminish Your Contributions
Sometimes, we simply have to say no. We can’t take on every task, be it bringing in snacks for class or volunteering for school events. Even if we’re active in the PTA, we often can’t devote as much time as we’d like. Our schedules are packed; carpooling can be a challenge, and sometimes we forget about field trips. Our “no” is not a reflection of your efforts. Your contributions are incredibly valuable, and we appreciate everything you do.If we miss an email or overlook a volunteer opportunity, don’t take it personally. Each of us is playing our own unique role, and for many of us, that means balancing work and family life. Let’s support each other in our respective journeys, celebrating the chaos that comes with motherhood while striving to provide the best for our children.
In conclusion, working moms juggle love, community, and boundaries daily. As we navigate this complex life, let’s remember that we can thrive together.