As a mom of two little ones, I often find myself anxious about whether they will ever grow up. I also stress about whether I’m doing it all wrong, but that’s a whole different story.
With the influence of social media, celebrities, and even other parents at the playground, I feel a constant pressure that my kids should be achieving more—talking, eating, and doing everything at a faster pace. But I’ve come to a conclusion: I’m letting go of that worry.
And I invite you, fellow parents of toddlers, to do the same. One day, your little ones will grow into perfectly normal, functioning adults. So take a deep breath, relax, and let’s move on. Here are some concerns that we can all afford to stop stressing about:
1. Potty Training Will Happen
I’m currently in the thick of potty training my son, who seems to sit on the toilet a hundred times a day without any success. He starts peeing on toys, and I rush him to the bathroom only for him to declare, “All done!” with nothing to show for it. It’s a hassle, but I promise, he won’t be in diapers forever. I don’t know many adults who have had a potty accident, and eventually, he’ll figure this out.
2. Pacifiers Will Be a Thing of the Past
How many high school seniors do you know who still suck on pacifiers during their SATs? Unless there’s a bet involved, probably none! I’m not concerned that my 2.5-year-old still uses a pacifier frequently because I know she will eventually let it go. Your child will too.
3. Eating Habits Will Evolve
Kids often have a limited palate, but as they grow, they’ll discover new foods. We all remember hating vegetables as kids, only to enjoy them later. One day, your child will be begging for broccoli instead of just chicken nuggets or frozen waffles.
4. Sleeping Through the Night Will Come
Every new parent wonders when their baby will sleep soundly through the night. As a mom of two toddlers, I can assure you that this phase will end. Soon enough, your kids will go to bed and you’ll have to wake them up for school!
5. Your Bed Will Be Your Own Again
Right now, my queen-sized bed feels more like a twin because both kids seem to want to snuggle as close to me as possible. Last night, my son was literally sleeping on my head. But soon enough, they’ll be too big for that, and I’ll reclaim my space.
6. Independent Play Will Develop
It may seem impossible now, but as your children grow, they will learn to entertain themselves. They will color, play with toys, and create their own stories without needing you to be involved every second. It may feel like you’ll never get a moment to yourself, but trust me, that day is coming.
7. Clothes Will Stay On
Unless nudity becomes a trend for your little one, they will learn that clothes are necessary in public. And who knows, they might even start to enjoy dressing up! So let them run around naked if they want—it saves you some laundry!
8. Bath Time Will Get Easier
While it’s possible your child may always resist bath time, most kids eventually come around. Just think, every group of friends needs a “stinky” kid, right?
The takeaway is that there are countless things we parents tend to fret over, and worrying only drains our mental energy. Instead, we should savor this chaotic yet beautiful stage of life. Your kids will grow up, learn to sleep on their own, give up the pacifier, and maybe even be the “smelly” kid in class. But what matters most is that they will grow to love you, and that’s truly what counts. For more insights on parenting and home insemination, check out this blog post on home insemination kits and learn about artificial insemination at home. Also, don’t forget to explore CCRM IVF’s blog for excellent resources on pregnancy and home insemination.
Summary:
As parents of toddlers, it’s easy to get caught up in worries about our children’s development. However, many concerns—like potty training, pacifier use, and even sleep habits—are phases that will pass. Embracing this chaotic stage can bring peace of mind, knowing that our kids will eventually grow into independent, loving adults.