A Kansas father, who preferred to remain anonymous and identified himself as “Mike,” recently expressed his dismay regarding a series of postcards he’s been receiving from the state. These bright red monthly reminders, sent by the Kansas Department of Children and Families, prompt him to make his child support payments, but Mike feels they invade his privacy.
“I was completely taken aback,” he shared with KWCH News. “Not only was I shocked, but I also felt embarrassed to have these cards being sent out as if it’s public information.” The postcards are not only sent to those who are late on their payments but to every non-custodial parent, regardless of their payment status. Instead of being discreetly packaged, these reminders boldly announce, “Have you paid your child support this month?” causing unnecessary embarrassment for responsible parents like Mike.
State’s Defense of the Postcards
A spokesperson for the Kansas DCF defended the practice, stating, “These postcards serve as reminders. They are clear that the individual owes child support but are not intended to shame anyone.” However, it’s hard to see how a bright red postcard can be viewed as discreet.
While it’s understandable to want to address the issue of parents who fall behind on payments, it seems unfair to include those who consistently fulfill their obligations. Mike questioned, “If this is seen as acceptable, what’s next? How much more of our personal information will be put on display?” His concern raises an important issue about privacy and the boundaries of government communication.
The Impact on Responsible Parents
If these reminders indeed help, that’s great. However, treating all non-custodial parents the same isn’t just. Yes, it’s uncomfortable to think that neighbors may view you as someone who neglects their child support. Non-custodial parents who fail to pay often face justified scrutiny. But those who are diligent in their payments likely just toss these postcards aside.
Family law attorney Lisa Morgan noted, “While the invasion of privacy might seem trivial, it pales in comparison to the millions of children living in poverty due to non-custodial parents who don’t contribute.” It feels as though responsible parents are being unfairly punished alongside those who are not fulfilling their duties.
Conclusion
In summary, while the intention behind the postcards may be to encourage compliance with child support payments, the method employed raises significant concerns about privacy and fairness. Responsible parents should not have to bear the brunt of public reminders that could easily be targeted solely at those who are behind.
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