Recently, I took a delightful trip down memory lane and introduced my daughters to the charming idea of having pen pals. With a spirited tone, I explained, “When I was your age, I had a pen pal! We exchanged letters and, even though we never met, we became friends. We shared our likes and dislikes, asked each other questions, and sometimes, we even included stickers! Just imagine the thrill of receiving a letter in the mail addressed just to you!” My 7-year-old, however, looked at me blankly, leaving me to ponder if I had oversold this nostalgic concept.
But then, to my surprise, my older daughter’s thoughtful expression transformed into a smile. I had initially aimed to steer the conversation towards her cousin in New Jersey, who is just a few days younger than my younger daughter, let’s call her Mia. I thought that if my older daughter, Emily, embraced the idea, Mia would follow suit. Yet, as I quickly realized, my kids have very different interests—what one finds exciting, the other may dismiss entirely. Emily ended up writing a letter to a friend who had moved away last year, while Mia’s cousin situation is still in the planning stages. At least one letter made it to the mailbox, which felt like a small victory.
I must confess, I was taken aback by how much effort it took to engage my daughters in the concept of pen pals. What I thought would be a quick chat turned into a lengthy process that spanned several hours. You might wonder if my girls have smartphones or social media accounts that allow them instant communication. Although they’ve had a few Skype calls from my laptop, they are currently phone-less. So, it wasn’t an aversion to outdated mail that dulled their excitement; they just weren’t as captivated as I had hoped.
This led me to think about the art of letter writing in our tech-driven world. It seems that technology has diminished the need for traditional correspondence, and while I appreciate the convenience of instant messaging, I can’t help but crave the joy of receiving a letter that isn’t just a bill or a random advertisement. The simple act of writing back has always held a special place in my heart. Yet, one has to wonder: has the beauty of handwritten letters become obsolete? Would a personal letter get lost among the noise of our fast-paced lives?
At their ages of 7 and 10, my daughters’ schedules are not overly hectic, but I’m still uncertain about the long-term appeal of the pen pal concept for them. Nevertheless, I’m glad to have introduced them to the joy of letter writing. Even if they only send or receive one letter, I hope they experience that little spark of happiness when they discover a letter from a friend waiting for them in the mailbox.
In summary, embracing the nostalgic practice of pen pals in this digital age might take effort, but it can create cherished moments and connections for our children.
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