Parenting
I’m a Fantastic Mom with Some Not-So-Great Moments
by Mia Thompson
Updated: Sep. 27, 2023
Originally Published: Sep. 2, 2023
I’m a fantastic mom. Yes, I said it! My kids insist on it, and they’re not known for spinning tales, so I believe them wholeheartedly.
But I’m also a less-than-perfect mom. That’s right, I admitted it. My children are still young enough to keep quiet about my flaws, but I know the truth will surface soon enough.
I’m a fantastic mom. I remind my kids daily just how much they are loved—because it’s true!
Yet, I’m a less-than-perfect mom. I can only take five minutes of their off-key singing before I start to lose it, even though I try to stick it out a little longer.
I’m a fantastic mom. Just look at how they gaze at me! It’s as if I could conquer any challenge, slay dragons, protect them from their fears, and whip up the best ham and cheese sandwich in town.
On the flip side, I’m a less-than-perfect mom. Playing dolls can get dull quickly, and I often find myself pretending to take a nap instead.
I’m a fantastic mom. I’m endlessly fascinated by their unique personalities. My partner, Jake, and I can’t help but talk about them at length—probably more than is socially acceptable!
However, I’m a less-than-perfect mom. There are nights when I skip storytime simply because I’m too exhausted to muster the energy.
I’m a fantastic mom. The moments I cherish most are the quiet ones we share—wondering at her freckles and marveling at his growing limbs.
Yet, I’m a less-than-perfect mom. I don’t always paint her nails when she asks and sometimes respond with, “I’m busy,” when I’m really just lounging on the couch.
I’m a fantastic mom. I treat my kids with respect and truly value their thoughts. I encourage their creativity and insist they play outside, even when the weather isn’t ideal.
Despite that, I’m a less-than-perfect mom. Occasionally, I lose sight of myself amidst the chaos.
I’m a fantastic mom. I dance with them like a goofball in our living room whenever our favorite song plays.
Yet, I’m a less-than-perfect mom. We often clash over my need for a peaceful home and their desire to be wild and carefree.
I’m a fantastic mom. I comfort them when they’re unwell, look them in the eye, ask deep questions, celebrate their achievements, and yes, sometimes cry with them.
But I’m a less-than-perfect mom. By 8 PM, all I can think about is myself. I dread getting them their water, finding their stuffed animals, and singing another lullaby. All I want is for them to finally sleep!
I’m a fantastic mom—just with a few less-than-perfect moments. And I bet you can relate. For more insights and relatable content, check out this helpful resource on home insemination kits. If you’re curious about self-insemination techniques, Make a Mom is a great authority on the subject, and for a deeper dive, this link offers excellent resources about pregnancy and home insemination.
Summary:
Being a mom is a blend of joy and chaos. While I embrace my role with love and enthusiasm, I also face moments of imperfection. Balancing the demands of motherhood can be a challenge, but every day brings new opportunities to connect with my kids and grow together.