Hey Mamas, it’s time to elevate our friendship game! Just because we’re knee-deep in diaper duty doesn’t mean we should let our friendships slip away. Sure, our little ones take up a lot of time and energy, but we can still nurture those important connections.
Last week, I shared tips for childfree friends to stay close to their mommy pals. Now, let’s dive into how we can keep the spark alive with our childfree besties. Remember when you were living life without a toddler clinging to your leg? You can still honor that part of yourself while being a supportive friend. Here are five ways to keep your friendship thriving:
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Be Selective with Baby Photos
While it’s tempting to share every adorable photo of your little one, your childfree friend doesn’t need a constant stream of updates. Limit those daily snapshots to significant milestones—walking, talking, or those hilarious moments. And whatever you do, skip sending potty pictures. Seriously, just don’t. Instead, ask for cute pics of her fur baby!
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Say ‘Yes’ to Outings
When your friend suggests a night out, embrace it! A break from the daily grind is refreshing, even if it feels like a huge effort to arrange childcare. Sure, your idea of a wild night might be binge-watching Netflix in pajamas, but stepping out can rejuvenate your spirit. So, when your bestie invites you to that trendy new café, go for it! Your soul will thank you.
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Don’t Let Child-Related Disruptions Derail Plans
Life happens, and sometimes you might need to cancel plans due to a sick child or unexpected events. But don’t make a habit of it. Be honest about your reasons and communicate as soon as possible. It’s perfectly fine to admit you’re too wiped out to go out. Just don’t leave your friend hanging without notice!
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Make Time for Phone Chats
If meeting up isn’t feasible, set aside time for a phone call. Texting is great, but nothing beats a good conversation. Aim for a 30-minute chat when the kids are occupied. It’s a chance to connect without the interruptions of snack requests or tantrums.
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Practice Empathy
We all remember a time when our biggest worry was what to eat for lunch. Life changes when you have kids, and friendships might shift, too. Acknowledge that your time is limited, but that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy quality moments together. Establish a regular catch-up schedule, whether it’s a monthly dinner or a virtual wine date. Flexibility and creativity can keep the friendship fun and alive.
Moms, don’t let motherhood exempt you from being a good friend. You might not have the luxury of alone time, but your bestie will understand if you communicate openly. Remember, nurturing friendships is just as important as caring for your little ones.
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In summary, nurturing friendships as a mom may come with its challenges, but with effort and understanding, you can maintain those valuable connections with your childfree friends.