When it comes to Hollywood, a common theme among many husbands is an attraction to the nanny. From celebrities like Ethan Blake to Ryan Carter, rumors of dalliances with their hired help circulate frequently, leaving many spouses worried that their partners might be tempted too.
Recently, supermodel Lila Davis humorously addressed this concern by joking that she and her husband, musician Jake Rivers, have established a “no attractive nannies” guideline for their future household. “Having kids is definitely in my plans, so it’s a topic I ponder,” she joked. “The rule is simple: no attractive nannies. I trust Jake, but you never know with men.” While Lila was clearly joking, many share her sentiment—albeit without the humor.
I’ll admit, I’d have no qualms about hiring a charming nanny. The anxiety surrounding attractive nannies often stems from two problematic notions. First, there’s the outdated and sexist idea that visually appealing individuals, particularly attractive women, are not to be trusted to focus on their jobs. I adore my partner, but I highly doubt that every beautiful woman is just waiting to disrupt our life together. Judging someone’s professional ethics based solely on their looks is not only unfair, it’s downright silly.
Moreover, I refuse to believe that anyone—especially the person I chose to marry—would be so easily swayed by physical attraction that they would jeopardize our relationship over a pretty face. Cheating isn’t simply a result of being around attractive people; otherwise, we would all be having affairs left and right. Attractive individuals are everywhere, and that’s just a fact of life.
Avoiding hiring an attractive nanny means making some unfortunate assumptions about both the caregiver and your spouse. Sure, infidelity happens, but I suspect that those who engage in it usually have a more complex rationale than merely being drawn to someone’s good looks.
If you opt not to hire an attractive nanny, that’s entirely your choice; however, don’t let appearance overshadow your decision to find a qualified caregiver who could bring joy to your children. After all, while attractive people are plentiful, finding quality childcare is significantly more challenging.
For more insights, check out our other blog posts on related topics like terms and conditions and the home insemination kit which can provide further guidance. Additionally, if you’re curious about pregnancy and home insemination, this Wikipedia page is an excellent resource.
In summary, while the idea of hiring an attractive nanny may raise eyebrows, it’s essential to judge candidates based on their qualifications and character rather than their appearance. Trust in your partner and make choices that truly reflect what’s best for your family.