I’ve been noticing a recurrent sentiment among new moms both on social media and in my mom group—this idea of #staylittle and the reminder that “babies don’t keep.” They often say, “These moments fly by; you won’t get this time back. Soon enough, your baby will be hitting the next milestone.” They’re absolutely right; time seems to slip away so quickly, and while those moments are irreplaceable, we have many new memories to create.
Now, let me clarify—I cherished every second with my wide-eyed, cooing infant snuggled against me. Yes, I shed tears while packing away her tiny newborn outfits, and I found myself wishing she’d stay little forever. But honestly, if she did? I’d be mashing bananas and toting around a diaper bag for an eternity.
So, to my little one, here’s why I don’t miss those baby days. While I would gladly relive every moment with you, my dear daughter, I won’t miss the sleepless nights, the endless bottles to clean, or having to keep you shaded from the sun during your first summer since you weren’t old enough for sunscreen.
I don’t miss the fragility of your tiny bones, feeling anxious every time a new person held you, worrying if they’d support your head properly. I much prefer your strong neck now, your arms that wrap around me, and your legs that run and climb with such joy. It fills me with pride to watch you tackle playground challenges and dance gracefully in ballet class.
I don’t long for those urgent cries for food. Instead, I’m in awe of how you’ve grown to communicate. Now you stand at the fridge asking for “milk, please” in your sweet little voice. It feels like such a privilege to gain a new little friend—an imaginative, chatty ball of energy who is discovering the world with independence.
Rest assured, I’m not rushing through these current moments. I’m fully present, enjoying your innocent laughter today while eagerly anticipating all that lies ahead. I dream of being the mom cheering you on at after-school activities, having heartfelt conversations over steaming mugs of hot chocolate, and sharing joy at the movie theater or during your first roller coaster ride. I can’t wait for those manicure dates and long lunches where you share stories about your latest crush.
Although the memory of your precious newborn self will always warm my heart, each stage of your childhood brings new challenges and opportunities that are equally beautiful. I will hold onto a piece of each phase in my heart, always ready to embrace the ever-changing, blossoming you as we navigate this journey together.
Because while babies don’t last forever, my love for you always will. If you’re curious about more parenting insights, feel free to check out this post for further information.
In summary, while the baby stage is fleeting and full of sweet moments, I find joy in watching my daughter grow into her own unique person, embracing new experiences and milestones.