Life as an adult certainly has its complexities. I’ve cultivated a close-knit circle of friends who accept me as I am—even on my messiest days. These are the friends who surprise me with cupcakes just because it’s Tuesday, and who instinctively know what to do during tough times without needing to ask. I cherish our “Wine Wednesdays” and spontaneous backyard gatherings. So, when I received the news that my beloved friend, Emily, was relocating to another state, I didn’t take it well.
Sure, there are valid reasons for her move—her husband’s demanding job keeps him away often, leaving her to juggle everything at home. I understand the challenges they face, but that didn’t make it easier for me to accept. Cue my dramatic foot stomping and heavy sighs. “Fine. Go ahead and make a responsible choice for your family. I’ll just be over here sulking,” I thought.
In the midst of my emotional turmoil, I realized that handling this situation like an adult was crucial. If you find yourself in a similar situation, here are some tips to help you navigate the emotional rollercoaster:
- Feign Excitement: Act enthusiastic about her new “amazing opportunity.”
- Reassure Yourself: Try to convince yourself when she says that distance won’t change your bond since you don’t see each other every day anyway!
- Social Media Support: When she shares a photo of the moving truck on Facebook, click “like” and comment “So exciting!” while secretly reaching for tissues.
- Do Some Research: Look into her new neighborhood and share places that supposedly resemble your favorite hangouts. She’ll see right through this fib, but she’ll appreciate the thought.
- Compliment the New Location: Tell her how incredible her new city is and how you wish you could move there too.
- Let the Tears Flow: When it’s time for goodbyes, let the tears come. Just tell her it’s due to the high-interest rates on their mortgage—very relevant, right?
- Hug Her Kids: Squeeze her children tightly and, if it gets awkward, blame it on your curiosity about their new laundry detergent.
- Stay Positive with Her Spouse: Avoid giving her husband the side-eye. Instead, express your excitement that he will finally be more present for their kids’ activities.
- Put on Your Big Girl Pants: Acknowledge that while this transition is hard for you, it’s even tougher for her.
- Maintain the Connection: Miss her like crazy, but remember that distance doesn’t have to weaken your friendship. Download every app available to stay in touch and ask your child for tech support!
I hope you never face the challenge of a best friend moving away. But if you do, at least now you have a game plan to handle it like a mature adult. Being grown-up is tough, but at least you can enjoy a glass of wine—no need to limit it to Wednesdays!
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Summary
Coping with a best friend moving away can be challenging, but it’s essential to approach it with grace and maturity. By pretending to be supportive, acknowledging your feelings, and finding ways to stay connected, you can navigate this emotional transition while keeping your friendship alive.