As we reflect on the past few years, we’ve had to bid farewell to our beloved dogs, and it has been an incredibly tough journey. They were more than just pets; they were cherished members of our family for nearly 13 years, sharing countless memories with my husband and our kids.
Now, our household is home to a rabbit that resides in a snug cage outside and a fish that swims in a bowl near the kitchen. While they might not have the same charm or personality as our dogs, they are undeniably easier to care for. I’m not implying that convenience is the only reason to have a pet, but I certainly appreciate not having to vacuum up dog hair from the carpet anymore.
As a mother of four, I realize that my perspective on pets has changed. With kids who create their own messes and greet me with enthusiasm when they return home from school, I find myself questioning the need for another dog. Admittedly, kids don’t replicate the unconditional love of a puppy, but at least they’re less likely to leave surprises on the lawn.
When our dogs, Max and Bella, were puppies, we enrolled them in obedience classes, where they learned essential commands like “sit” and occasionally “come.” However, mastering the leash? That was a challenge we never quite conquered. They were wonderful dogs, truly, but let’s just say their training was more of a casual affair. I had the time and energy to help guide them, which brought harmony to our household.
Yes, they may have chewed on the cabinet doors and left their mark on the window sills, not to mention the carpet incident in our living room. But the joy of watching them learn basic commands far outweighed the chaos.
Let’s be honest: no one enters a pet-owner relationship expecting a smooth ride. We don’t choose pets to maintain a pristine home or avoid stepping in cold surprises during the night. We welcome them into our lives for the love they bring and the companionship they offer, even if our furry friends might let an intruder stroll in if they’re distracted by treats.
Interestingly, raising a pet provides a great preparation for parenthood. While pets and kids are different—children tend to put much stranger things in their mouths and sometimes create messes that are harder to clean up—taking care of dogs, cats, and even rabbits can serve as practical experience. It’s certainly more beneficial than pretending to care for a bag of sugar in health class, imagining it’s your future child, Chad.
Now that I have my kids, I find myself contemplating whether we need another dog. I hear my children asking about getting a new furry friend, and I can’t help but think that perhaps we should consider a pet that requires less attention.
To help guide my decision, I’ve put together a straightforward list for busy parents contemplating a family pet. Keep in mind there’s a brief window—between ages 9 and 12—when kids can handle the majority of a pet’s needs, before their interests shift to dating or texting. If you’re set on a high-maintenance pet, make sure to have a pre-teen around to help!
Here’s a brutally honest breakdown of common family pets:
- Dog = Mobile Poop Dispenser: Not only do you have to collect it, but you also need to find it first.
- Cat = Hairball Bomb: Hairballs occur when cat vomit and shower clogs collide.
- Goldfish = Future Toilet Sushi: One moment they’re swimming along, and the next, they’re ready to flush.
- Rabbit = Fluffy Escape Artist: They yearn for freedom and possess the skills to achieve it, despite your family’s desire to cuddle them.
- Bird = Aerial Poop Dispenser: It drops from above! Is that what you want?
- Hamster = Culturally Acceptable Mouse: Yep, still just a mouse.
- Hermit Crab = Nearly a Rock: Buy a cage, toss in a decorative shell, and pretend he’s always resting.
Of course, there are other options like lizards, ferrets, and even mini pigs, but at the end of the day, they’re all pets with their own messes to manage. It’s no surprise that “pets” is just a typo away from “pests.”
In our family, I know we’ll eventually welcome some of these animals into our home. They may be noisy, messy, or even unresponsive, but having pets is a fantastic way to teach kids about empathy and responsibility. After all, learning to care for another being and handle their messes is an essential skill for life.
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Summary
Pets not only enrich family life but also serve as valuable training for parenting. From dogs to rabbits, each pet comes with its own set of responsibilities, teaching kids compassion and care. As families navigate the decision of welcoming a new pet, it’s essential to consider the time and energy required—especially when kids are still young enough to help out.