It’s that time of the year again—my birthday. Yup, it rolls around every year without fail. This year, I hit 38, officially launching myself into my late 30s instead of just hanging out in my mid-30s. While it may seem like a trivial distinction, it’s a notable one. After all, 40 is just around the corner; not in eight years like Meg Ryan lamented in When Harry Met Sally, but in just two short years.
As I navigate my late 30s, I’m reminded that it’s my final pit stop before hitting the big 4-0. When my dad turned 40, my mom threw him an “Over the Hill” party, complete with signs proclaiming him “Older than Dirt.” By the time I reach that milestone, my youngest will still be in preschool.
Before I start wallowing in thoughts of being an “old woman,” I need to remind myself that aging brings plenty of positives. I’ve celebrated my 20s with wild parties, navigated the toddler years in my 30s, and now, as I step into my late 30s, exciting possibilities lie ahead. Here are eight compelling reasons to embrace being 38:
- I Can Laugh at High School Trends: Watching teenagers mimic my ’90s fashion choices is downright amusing. Chokers, Doc Martens, floral dresses, and tiny backpacks? Oh, the nostalgia! And the grunge enthusiasts with their plaid shirts tied around their waists? Hilarious! Apparently, we didn’t look ridiculous enough to deter them from our past fashion faux pas.
- No More Babies for Me: My kids are young (5 and 2), but I’m officially done with pregnancy. Hooray! No more uncomfortable OB visits, dietary restrictions, or sleepless nights. Sure, I still tackle diaper duty, but that phase is coming to an end. Once my little one drops his nap, a whole new chapter of family adventures awaits us.
- I Know What Works for Me: My body has changed quite a bit over the last six years, but I’ve learned to embrace my assets. I wear a push-up bra since, let’s face it, my post-baby figure isn’t what it used to be. I opt for flattering tops that accentuate my waist and colors that complement my red hair. Finally, I’ve discovered the right red hue—orange-red, not purple-red—that looks natural.
- I Also Know What Doesn’t Work: While I adore the look of cigarette pants and T-straps, I’ve come to terms with the fact that they don’t suit me. No matter my weight, those styles just don’t flatter my figure. I no longer feel the need to try on every cute outfit I see; I know what’s for me and what’s not.
- Weight Worries are Behind Me: My weight has fluctuated significantly over the past several years, and that’s perfectly fine. In my younger days, I would’ve panicked over a few extra pounds. Now, I focus on feeling good instead of stressing over the scale. If I want to shed a few pounds, I exercise and cut back on the late-night ice cream binges. The truth is, no one else pays attention to those minor weight changes.
- I See Through the Facebook Facade: I enjoy Facebook and share lots of pictures of my kids, but I’ve learned not to take it personally if friends don’t engage with my posts. I understand that many people may not relate to my parenting content. Plus, I no longer get jealous of others’ posts; I know that what we see is often a polished version of reality.
- No Need to Impress Anyone: If I want to lose weight, it’s for my own well-being, not to meet someone else’s standards. I wear what I love and parent as best as I can. Compliments are nice, but I’ve realized that what truly matters is being authentic. If someone can’t accept me for who I am, that’s their loss—I simply don’t have the energy to be anyone but myself.
- Grateful for My Privacy: I once dreamed of being famous, thinking my wit and charm would make me a star. But looking back, I’m relieved that I’m not in the spotlight. I’ve had my share of embarrassing moments that my kids and family don’t need to know about. Most of my blunders remain tucked away in the past, allowing me to reflect on my growth without the pressure of public scrutiny.
In fact, this is perhaps the best reason to embrace being 38: I have the perspective to appreciate my journey and reconcile who I was with who I am today. As I inch closer to 40, I feel a profound sense of gratitude for the experiences that have shaped me.
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Summary
Turning 38 is a time for reflection and celebration. It brings a unique perspective, allowing for self-acceptance and a greater appreciation for life. From laughing at past fashion trends to embracing a newfound confidence, being in your late 30s can be liberating. With the joy of no longer having to navigate the challenges of pregnancy and the freedom to be yourself, this age can be truly empowering.