“Please Comment On The Size Of My Belly,” Said No Expectant Mother, Ever

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Anyone who has experienced pregnancy knows it can feel like a marathon of unsolicited opinions and personal space invasions. The moment you announce you’re expecting, it seems to give everyone around you the green light to weigh in on your appearance. This is especially true for those in the limelight, like the fabulous celebrity, Mia Henderson.

Mia recently shared her pregnancy news and posted her first “baby bump” photo over the weekend. While she’s received an overwhelming amount of congratulations and warm wishes, she’s also been bombarded with comments from the no-filter brigade.

  • “Wow, your belly is growing so fast! Must be a boy!”
  • “Is that bump big enough for twins?”
  • “Did you overindulge on all those pasta dishes?”
  • “Look at you, you’ve popped! My friend is due later and she’s half your size—are you sure it’s not triplets?”

These remarks usually fall into a few categories: gender guesses, twin speculation, and those just plain rude comments. Responding to the twin speculation, Mia quipped back, “Just because my belly is growing doesn’t mean I’m expecting more than one!”

There’s something about a baby bump that seems to make people temporarily forget their manners. I remember when I was nearing the end of my pregnancy with my first child. A stranger approached me in a coffee shop, cupped my belly, and proclaimed, “This baby is definitely a girl, how blessed you are!” Spoiler alert: it was a boy! Talk about an awkward interaction.

As if growing a tiny human wasn’t challenging enough, you also have to navigate the unsolicited touching, comments about your size, and bizarre predictions. It’s a wild ride, expectant mothers, and while I wish I had the magic wand to stop this behavior, I’m afraid we just have to brace ourselves.

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In conclusion, while the journey of pregnancy is filled with joy and anticipation, it often comes with unsolicited commentary that can be bewildering. Remember, your body is doing something incredible, and your experience is uniquely yours!