As any mom with a legal background will tell you, the bright line rule is a game changer. Let me save you the hassle of law school loans and break it down for you:
A bright line rule simplifies decision-making by providing clear, unambiguous guidelines with no exceptions. Think of it like a speed limit: it doesn’t matter if you’re a race car driver going a perfectly safe speed in a low zone; the rule is the rule. There’s no room for debate because the only question the judge will ask is: Did you exceed the limit?
The bright line rule is essentially the law’s version of “talk to the hand.” For moms, it’s an invaluable tool. Here’s how I implement it in my household:
Dress Code? Simple.
We wear pants when the temperature drops below 50 degrees and coats when it hits 40. Just check the thermometer—no debate necessary. I won’t entertain discussions about how unfair my clothing rules are before I’ve had my morning coffee, nor do I care what other kids are wearing. Just zip it up and get on that bus!
School Attendance is Mandatory.
If the school is open and you’re not sick, you’re going. We don’t take mental health days or family vacation days; school is your responsibility, even if it’s just a movie day. If you’re “allowed” to leave after fifth period? Great! But remember, you’re not skipping out early.
One Delivery a Semester.
I hate to see you learn this lesson the hard way, but you get one chance to remember your lunch. Forget it, and you’ll have to think twice about settling for that cafeteria chicken patty. Be mindful, because if you forget something important like your saxophone project, you’ll have to deal with it.
Strict Age Ratings.
I don’t recall hosting your 13th birthday party, so why are you asking to watch a PG-13 movie? I appreciate the distinction between different types of PG-13 films, but until I get screeners from the Academy, we’re sticking to the ratings. And if you think I’ll play Rated M video games to vet them, you’ve got another thing coming!
No Parents, No Play.
You might think nothing will happen if you visit your friend’s house before his parents are home, but I can’t risk it. I don’t have the time to research his house for safety issues or to figure out why one friend’s home is okay and another’s isn’t. If there are no parents around, you’re not going—end of story.
Be Home on Time.
If I’m at the door to pick you up, you better come home. There’s no “staying longer.” I’ve made the effort to be there at the agreed time, so you need to keep your end of the deal and get in the car. If you try to have your friends plead with me to let you stay longer, I will kindly decline until you’re in the car.
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So, what do you think? Ready to embrace the bright line rule for a happier home?