I’m on a mission to raise kind, respectful kids who won’t turn into little tyrants. I strive to instill values such as holding doors for others, picking up after people, making eye contact during conversations, and the timeless “please” and “thank you.” I even remind them that restaurants shouldn’t resemble a war zone after a meal. I aim to lead by example, practicing what I preach—most of the time, at least.
When my kids were younger, I could sneak in a few indulgences, like devouring chocolate chips in secret while they colored away. But now that they’re older and more perceptive, my little secrets have become harder to conceal. They notice my contradictions. Am I a hypocritical mom? Absolutely. Let’s dive into my top reasons.
1. Cookie Dough Dilemma
I firmly tell my kids that they can’t eat cookie dough because of the raw eggs. I emphasize how it could make them ill. However, the reality is that I need enough cookie dough to last the week, and I want to savor that bowl all by myself. Sorry, kiddos—extra dough is my guilty pleasure!
2. The Truth About Lies
I always stress the importance of honesty. Lying is bad, I tell them. Yet, when it comes to visits to the pediatrician, I might encourage them to keep quiet about our fast-food habits. “Just let me handle this,” I say, especially when we’re in the presence of that health-conscious mom who seems to have it all figured out. Technically, it’s not lying; it’s just selective sharing.
3. Bad Words Ban
I’ve told them countless times not to use bad language. Yet, there I was, stressed out in a sketchy motel and letting a curse word slip when faced with unexpected adult content on the TV. I asked them not to repeat it, but of course, they found it hilarious and couldn’t resist chanting it for the rest of the trip. Who can blame me? Sometimes, stepping on a LEGO or running out of chocolate chips just calls for a little outburst.
4. Screen Time Struggles
I often preach about limiting screen time, but let’s be real—sometimes it’s a lifesaver during long car rides. I lecture them on the dangers of excessive screen time, but then I find myself scrolling through Pinterest while they’re distracted by their devices.
5. Manners Matter
I’m constantly reminding them about proper etiquette. Drinking straight from the faucet? Not on my watch! Chewing with their mouths open? A big no-no. But then they catch me in the act of indulging in a piece of cake over the sink—talk about a double standard!
6. Dressing for Success
While I encourage my kids to look presentable, I often find myself in sweaty workout clothes, typing away after a long run. I tell them to dress nicely for outings, but sometimes it feels like a chore, especially when I’m just exhausted.
So, will I change my ways to be a better role model? Probably not. As the saying goes, “Do as I say, not as I do.” And honestly, that works for me.
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In summary, parenting is a balancing act of values and realities, and we all have our moments of hypocrisy. It’s part of the journey, and I embrace mine with a smile—even when it’s messy.