I often dread being that parent—the one whose child disrupts the tranquility of others with their outbursts or boundless energy. Of course, I’m the mom who sometimes steps in with stern words when my child is misbehaving. But let’s be real—there are moments when you simply aren’t entitled to a quiet environment. You’ve entered my child’s world, and that comes with a certain level of noise. Here are seven scenarios where we parents shouldn’t have to apologize for our kids being a bit loud:
- At an animated film before 7 p.m. I understand that you appreciate the artistry of animated films. You love the clever storytelling and stunning visuals. But guess what? You’re at a kid-friendly movie! Expect children to be, well, children. If my daughter has a question about the villain or wants to dance in her seat, look the other way. If you want silence, opt for an adult screening later in the evening.
- On a flight to Florida, the Bahamas, or Mexico during school break. Yes, that’s my toddler wailing and my preschooler throwing a fit because they want the window seat. Sorry, but it’s not a vacation for me either, so brace yourself for some noise.
- In a local grocery store during the day. The grocery store is my second home. While I’d love to shop in peace, that’s not realistic. So when my child has a meltdown over not buying the jumbo pack of juice, please don’t roll your eyes at me. You knew what you signed up for. If it’s too much, there’s always a quieter store in the next town.
- At a family-friendly restaurant before 7 p.m. Yes, that’s my child crying because their fries touched something green. If a restaurant offers crayons with their kids’ menu, you should be ready for a lively atmosphere. For a quieter meal, try a place that caters to adults.
- In a children’s clothing store. While it’s lovely that you’re shopping for your niece, my child is likely to be climbing through racks and making a scene over everything they see. If that bothers you, consider online shopping instead.
- At a park with a playground. It’s fantastic that you brought a book to enjoy in the sun, but those swings and slides are likely to attract my child and their friends, who will be running and playing nearby. If you want peace, find a separate spot away from the action.
- In a toy store or at Chuck E. Cheese’s. Honestly, why are you here if you’re not prepared for some noise? Just go home if you can’t handle it.
While it would be nice to have safe spaces where my child can be free without judgment, the reality is that those don’t always exist. To maintain peace for everyone, I promise to stay vigilant and ensure my child isn’t causing a ruckus without some supervision.
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Summary
Kids can be noisy, and as parents, we shouldn’t feel pressured to keep them quiet in certain environments. From animated films to parks, there are plenty of situations where children should be allowed to express themselves freely without the expectation of silence from others.