A wedding photographer recently shared a post on Facebook that perfectly encapsulates the frustration of having guests distracted by their phones during ceremonies. Photographer Jake Thompson expressed his dismay after missing a critical moment at a wedding when the bride was walking down the aisle, thanks to guests blocking his view with their devices. Instead of capturing the tender gaze between the couple as they prepared to exchange vows, he ended up with an obstructed shot.
This is a moment filled with love and anticipation, where emotions run high and tears may flow. But what marred this beautiful scene? The wedding guests, fixated on their phone screens, were unwittingly blocking the groom’s view. Jake passionately advocates for “unplugged weddings,” where guests are encouraged to leave their devices behind. He suggests couples inform their guests through invitations, signage, or even by having the officiant announce it at the start of the ceremony. He humorously adds, “If necessary, hire a plane to write it in the sky!”
The Role of a Wedding Photographer
The role of a wedding photographer is unique and skilled—capturing fleeting moments that often go unnoticed. Weddings are filled with these precious instants, and it’s essential for photographers to maneuver freely without obstructions, ensuring that the couple has stunning images to cherish for generations. It can be incredibly challenging when surrounded by a crowd of people who believe they can play photographer just because they own a smartphone with a decent camera and filters.
Having worked briefly as a wedding photographer myself, I can attest to the immense pressure to deliver flawless results. Couples expect their wedding albums to be perfect heirlooms, treasured for years to come. This is why professional photography comes at a premium, and why it’s vital for guests to step aside when it counts.
Engaging with the Moment
Jake reminds attendees that they are there to witness and celebrate the love between two people—not to take their own pictures that may go unseen. He also points out the rudeness of guests sharing photos on social media before the couple has had a chance to do so themselves, akin to announcing someone’s pregnancy before they share the news.
If you find yourself at a wedding, unless specifically invited to capture moments, it’s best to put your phone away and enjoy the experience. At the very least, refrain from using it during the ceremony. As Jake wisely puts it, “You are there as witnesses to their vows, so please engage with your eyes and hearts, not through a screen.”
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Conclusion
In summary, photographers like Jake Thompson strive to capture those special moments at weddings, and it’s critical for guests to respect that by putting their phones away. This ensures that everyone can fully engage in the celebration of love, creating a memorable experience for all.