I want to start by expressing my deep appreciation for the invaluable role you play in our children’s lives. Your enthusiasm for spending time with them is something I truly treasure, and I wholeheartedly support the special bond you share.
Feel free to visit, send the occasional surprise package, or even treat them to ice cream (even if it’s before dinner!). Spoiling them is your rightful joy, and I’ll gladly handle any aftermath that comes with it.
However, I must draw the line at parenting. Your days of guiding me have passed—now it’s my turn. My partner and I are responsible for instilling the values and principles that shape our family, and what happens within our home is ultimately our decision.
When you enter our space, please intervene only in genuine emergencies—like if someone is in danger or engaging in unsafe behavior. In all other matters, I would appreciate it if you would allow me to manage the daily routines, such as meals, bedtimes, and clothing choices. Rest assured, should there be any issues with behavior, I will address them, even if you may not see the way I handle it.
Also, there’s no need to comment on how often they reach out or how soon they send thank-you notes. If you’re looking for affection, share a hug or a kiss, but please don’t resort to guilt—it’s not your place to impose that on my kids.
Your role is beautifully simple: to shower them with love, make them feel cherished, and let your joy shine whenever they are near. Treasure your moments together, knowing that the challenges of parenting—nurturing, teaching, and guiding—are mine to navigate.
Thank you for understanding and for allowing me to embrace my role as their parent.
With sincere appreciation,
Your grandchildren’s mother
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Summary
This letter emphasizes the importance of the grandparent-grandchild relationship while clarifying boundaries regarding parenting responsibilities. The writer expresses gratitude for the love and support grandparents provide, encouraging them to engage in their roles while respecting the parents’ authority.