What Non-Parents Should Understand About Flying with Kids

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I often hear from non-parents who express their frustrations about flying alongside children. They complain about kids kicking the seats, crying uncontrollably, or simply staring at them in a way that demands attention. I nod along, staying gracious and non-confrontational, as if I owe them an apology on behalf of all parents. But here’s the truth: No one dreads traveling with kids more than their parents. Still, air travel with children is a reality we all face. Here are some common grievances from non-parents about flying with kids, along with what I’d say if I weren’t striving to be polite:

1. “I was on a flight, and a baby cried the entire time. How hard can it be to keep a baby quiet?”

   On a plane? It’s incredibly difficult! Let me share a little insight about babies: many can’t equalize their ears yet, which means they often feel intense pressure during flights. The last time I flew with my baby, I received ear drops from the doctor that were supposed to help, but honestly, they didn’t do a thing. Meanwhile, family back home was eagerly waiting to meet the baby for the holidays. So if my baby cries the whole way and a clueless person like you glares at me, just remember that Grandma is eagerly anticipating some baby snuggles.

2. “Every time I fly, I end up stuck behind a mom with a stroller going through security. It’s so annoying!”

   Really? Do you need a neck pillow and four gadgets to keep you entertained for just a few hours? Probably not. Imagine trying to keep a child occupied who has the attention span of a goldfish. Plus, there’s the added challenge of keeping them fed and their bottoms clean. I once found myself at the Denver airport with two kids suffering from diarrhea during a three-hour delay. If I hadn’t packed enough supplies, you would have been smelling some serious kid mess throughout the flight while giving me judgmental looks for not bringing enough diapers!

3. “I was seated next to a mom who breastfed her baby during the flight! Why can’t she wait?”

   While that may have offended you, remember you probably had a lap full of snacks (chips, candy, soda), right? Just as you don’t want to go hungry, neither does a baby. Try to empathize a little!

4. “A toddler threw a tantrum on the plane. Parents should teach their kids better!”

   Seriously? Are you telling me you wouldn’t want to throw a fit in such a cramped and uncomfortable space? Everyone is stuck together, and yes, it’s unpleasant to be next to a screaming child. But remember, adults can control their emotions—toddlers are still learning. So why not be the bigger person? Put on your headphones, grab a neck pillow, and let it go.

5. “Why can’t parents just wait until their kids are older to travel?”

   Are you suggesting there should be an age limit on flying? Should grandparents miss out on holiday visits or family gatherings just because you can’t stand the inconvenience? Families need to travel together, and that includes children. Not everything revolves around your comfort. Kids have a rightful place in this world, including on airplanes.

So, kindly keep your snarky comments and disapproving looks to yourself. Parents don’t enjoy traveling with kids either, but it’s a part of life. So put on your headphones, read a book, snack on your treats, and deal with it.

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Summary

Traveling with children can be challenging for everyone involved. Non-parents often express frustrations about kids crying, tantrums, and the extra gear parents carry. However, it’s important to remember that parents are just as uncomfortable during these flights. Empathy and understanding go a long way, and sometimes, it’s best to simply tune out the chaos and focus on your own journey.