I’m a vibrant 30-something soccer mom on the lookout for a kindred spirit to embark on the journey of best friendship. If you’re a clean-freak CrossFit enthusiast, this might not be the perfect fit for you. I’m all for healthy eating, but let’s make sure we carve out time for froyo runs at that delightful spot our kids adore.
I’m searching for someone who is compassionate and understanding, someone who doesn’t mind spending afternoons lounging on my couch while my toddler plays, listening to my musings about the same five topics over and over again. You don’t need to be the one to initiate calls, but you’re totally up for exchanging texts and sharing updates on social media.
If you see me in my glasses and comfy flannel pajama bottoms at noon, you’ll just smile and not mention it to my husband or mother. You’re outgoing, confident, and have your own distinct perspective on life, along with a personal style that you’re excited to share. Our friendship won’t feel like a competition; we’ve both matured past comparing who has the bigger house or whose spouse has the better job.
Adventure is your middle name. You might suggest trying a pole dancing class or organizing a spontaneous beach trip with the kids. You’re well-read and understand that “50 Shades of Grey” isn’t exactly literary gold; you’d never waste money on it or plan a night out to see the movie. While you may have had your wild days, motherhood has brought a lovely calm to your life. These days, caffeine is your go-to indulgence, and a glass of wine is your idea of a fun evening, not three Long Island iced teas in an hour. You’ve likely attended either Lollapalooza or Lilith Fair and have dreams of introducing those artists to your children someday.
You’re not looking to use our friendship for social climbing. Whether you’re part of a country club or not, you’re comfortable with where you are. You won’t ghost me if a newer, shinier mom enters the picture. No pressure to host parties to sell purses or beauty products; you have no hidden agendas. You simply want to connect with me for who I am.
Despite the ups and downs of past friendships, you remain hopeful. I’ve been searching for you long enough that if we find each other at this stage of our lives, I’m all in for nurturing this friendship. I hope you are too!
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In summary, I’m in search of a genuine friend who shares similar interests and values, someone who is adventurous, confident, and ready to embrace the joys of motherhood alongside me. Let’s create a friendship that thrives on understanding and fun!