Dear Parents,
It’s just a quick click—no stamps, no postage, and you don’t even have to leave your cozy couch! I know you received the invitation; my “manage guests” feature shows you viewed it yesterday. Your child even mentioned to mine that he’s excited to come to the party. So, I’m curious, what’s holding you back? If you’re still unsure, just select “Decide Later.” Technology makes RSVPing easier than ever!
I completely understand how busy life can be. Many parents drop off their kids at school still in pajamas, coffee in hand, so I get it—adulting is no small feat. If you misplaced the invitation in your inbox, don’t fret—I sent a couple of reminders as well. That’s multiple chances to let me know who’s coming! But it seems that understanding how many pizzas to order or goodie bags to prepare isn’t a priority for some.
On party day, it’s a bit surprising when I see extra kids showing up that weren’t invited. Just the other day, I noticed a couple of siblings tagging along, even when one of them clearly wasn’t old enough for a pool party. I can’t help but feel a bit overwhelmed when I end up babysitting more than I bargained for. I only planned for my daughter’s friends, and it can be a lot to manage.
It makes me wonder when it became acceptable to bring the whole crew to a party meant for just one child. Growing up, my siblings and I didn’t attend parties together, and we never threw a fit about it. If fairness is the issue, maybe it’s better for everyone if you stay home or explain to your little ones why they can’t join.
I might be a bit too harsh on you, especially since you did bring a gift to a no-gift party. A massive 2,000-piece puzzle of kittens? That’s going to be a fun challenge after the party chaos! I’ll send a thank you card, but you may not want to expect anything special in return after the day I’ve had. Hope you enjoyed your coffee!
Warm regards,
A fellow parent navigating the joys of party planning