Dear Kids,
As the holiday season rolls around, I want to take a moment to talk about the mixed feelings that come with this time of year for our Jewish family. Everywhere we look, we’re surrounded by the bright colors and festive spirit of Christmas. The streets are adorned with twinkling lights, and the air is filled with catchy tunes about Santa and holiday cheer (I know, you probably think of music differently in your MP3 world!). Cars drive past with Christmas trees strapped to their roofs, and social media is flooded with creative Elf on the Shelf antics. It’s hard to miss that Christmas is just around the corner.
When you asked the other day when we would put up our Christmas tree, my heart felt heavy—not just because you wanted one, but because I realized how to explain why we don’t embrace those specific traditions. You won’t see a Christmas tree in our home, and there won’t be cookies left for Santa. The reality is that Christmas will happen all around us, and while it’s a beautiful holiday for many, it doesn’t hold the same meaning for us.
Every year, someone asks if we will “do” Christmas, as it seems so prevalent in our culture. You might hear suggestions about getting a Hanukkah bush or decorating with blue and white lights to celebrate the season. These ideas, while well-meaning, can make it seem like we’re depriving you of something special.
I truly hope that even though we don’t celebrate Christmas, you still feel the joy of the season. We have our own rich traditions to cherish! We’ll gather around the menorah, spin the dreidel, and enjoy delicious latkes. We’ll share laughter and love with family and friends, and yes, you’ll receive presents just like your friends who celebrate Christmas.
During this festive time, when Christmas symbols are everywhere, remember that what really matters is how we celebrate. Whether it’s Hanukkah or Christmas or any other holiday, the essence lies in love, kindness, and caring for those around us. It’s about finding joy, helping those in need, and embracing our values, regardless of the holiday being celebrated. You share so much in common with your friends who celebrate Christmas without even realizing it.
And don’t forget, Christmas has its own unique meaning for many in our community, too—it’s often a day for enjoying movies and indulging in Chinese food, shared with fellow Jews across the country.
Happy Hanukkah, my dear children. Always remember, I love you so much!
Warmly,
Mommy
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In summary, this letter reflects on our unique traditions during the holiday season, emphasizing the importance of love and kindness over specific celebrations. While Christmas may surround us, our Jewish values and celebrations remain deeply meaningful.