Dear Son,
As you approach your 6th birthday, I find myself wishing I could pause this moment and hold onto you as my Gentle Spirit. Your tender heart and sensitivity are often misunderstood; society might mistakenly see them as weaknesses in boys. Your empathy and ability to express emotions through tears are sometimes labeled as “feminine.” Always remember, these traits are not flaws but gifts that make you who you are, and don’t let anyone convince you otherwise.
There’s so much I want to share about how to appreciate the girls in your life. If I could wish for one thing, it would be that you treat every girl as you would treat me—with honor, respect, and the understanding that they are perfect just as they are. I admire how you see the world filled with optimism and hope. As you grow, promise me that you will look at a girl first through your heart, then with your eyes. Recognize her mind, her heart, and her soul. Respect her autonomy—she has control over her own body.
Stand firm against those who might view girls as mere objects. Show them that kindness and gentleness are strengths, not weaknesses. Teach your peers that girls are equals in every regard. Encourage the girls around you to focus on the positive and uplift each other. Use that remarkable ability you have to connect with people to inspire change among your friends. Always keep in mind the wise lessons your dad has shared about treating girls with respect. He is a shining example of standing up for equality.
I understand that being a sensitive boy can be challenging at times. Don’t let the majority shape your identity. You have an extraordinary power within that gentle spirit of yours—use it to lead others toward being their best selves.
You are strong, resilient, compassionate, and full of humor. All these qualities have their rightful place in your life. If you ever feel uncertain about who you are, remember what Molly Lou Melon’s grandma said: “Smile big and the world will smile right alongside of you.”
With all my love,
Mom
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