Nursing Adventures with Your Little One
Breastfeeding continues to be a beloved bonding experience and is increasingly accepted in public spaces (thank goodness for that!). However, if you’re nursing a toddler, you might find yourself facing those judgmental glances from strangers—yes, “the look” that says it all. Now that your child is growing and not relying solely on nursing for nutrition, it’s a great time to instill some nursing etiquette. This way, you can prevent unexpected shirt yanks during your shopping trips, like in the middle of Target.
Fortunately, toddlers are starting to grasp reasoning—at least some of the time! Setting clear boundaries is key. Let your little one know there are appropriate times and places for nursing, such as before naps and at bedtime. If she asks outside those times, gently remind her, “Nursing is just for sleepy time, remember?” Offer cuddles or distractions like a book or a drink to help her adjust. With time, she’ll learn to nurse within those limits and will likely stop asking as insistently when you’re out and about.
At this age, toddlers are always on the move. You may find yourself amused (or exhausted) by the “nursing gymnastics” that occur as your toddler wriggles and reaches during nursing sessions. If it becomes too chaotic, gently remove her from your lap, explaining that nursing is a time for relaxing and holding still. Consistency is crucial; she will learn that squirming or any other antics can cut a session short. (Trust us, we’ve learned the hard way—“MY BOOBS ARE NOT MADE OF SILLY PUTTY!” is a phrase we can relate to all too well.)
A Helpful Tip:
It’s normal for toddlers to seem fixated on nursing, believing every time you sit down is an invitation to latch on. It’s perfectly okay to say no, even if that leads to a few tears! Acknowledge her feelings and meet her needs through snuggles or alternative comforts, which can soothe her without resorting to nursing.
Homework:
- Why Breastfeeding My Toddlers Worked For Us
- 10 Myths About Breastfeeding Older Children
- It’s Outrageous That We Need To “Normalize” Breastfeeding In Public
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Summary:
Breastfeeding a toddler can come with its own challenges, especially when it comes to setting boundaries and managing unexpected interruptions. By teaching your little one when and where nursing is appropriate, you can create a more peaceful experience for both of you. Remember, it’s okay to say no sometimes, and offering cuddles or distractions can help ease any disappointment.