Recently, I had a moment of clarity while watching my kids lounging around the living room, just being themselves. It suddenly dawned on me: my youngest child is the last one who still believes in Santa. This year marks the end of an era—a bittersweet realization that I hadn’t fully grasped until now.
My youngest son is still wrapped in that delightful innocence, filled with unwavering faith in Santa and all his magic. Each morning, he races out of bed to find his Elf, who he believes is as real as can be. He’s even handed me his meticulously crafted letter to Santa, complete with stickers and glitter. Yet, I’ve been so caught up in my holiday to-do list that I almost missed this precious moment of belief.
It seems like a common plight for parents: by the time you reach your last child, the holiday spirit can feel a bit worn down. I’ve already gone through all the milestones—from baby’s first Christmas to countless visits with Santa. We’ve hosted cookie-making sessions and holiday parties, shopped for gifts, and taken the time to enjoy the season fully. But now, with my youngest, it’s more like, “Want to buy a gift for your dad? Here’s my Amazon login,” or “Need Christmas pajamas? I think there’s a box somewhere.”
This morning, as we drove to school, my youngest made a comment that jolted me. He said, “I still believe in Santa, but I’m not so sure about the reindeer anymore… I mean, flying is kind of a stretch.” My heart sank for a moment, fearing the end of his magical belief was near. But then, his older brother chimed in with a grin, “Of course they can fly! Santa gives them special magic food to help them.”
Relief washed over me as my youngest nodded, convinced by his brother’s words. While the holiday season might feel overwhelming, I’ve decided to embrace this opportunity to create one last enchanting Christmas for my little believer. I’ll dig up those cherished Christmas pajamas, craft a countdown chain, and bake cookies for Santa. We’ll talk about magical reindeer food and the elves in the North Pole who are diligently making toys.
In just a year, my youngest may no longer hold onto these beliefs, but for now, we’ll revel in the magic of Santa. Let’s allow ourselves to believe, even if just for a little while longer.
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In summary, cherish the moments of belief and magic during the holidays, especially with your youngest child. The time passes quickly, and creating lasting memories is what truly matters.