When I was just 19, the world of the NICU was completely foreign to me. I had never even heard of NICU nurses, nor did I understand the vital role they play behind those securely locked doors. The reality is that many people don’t realize the profound impact that NICU staff can have on families with critically ill newborns in need of specialized care—your specialized care.
I had no idea that I would forge bonds, feel love, and share tears in a place that was so overwhelming. I didn’t know what it would be like to leave my tiny baby, my heart, in the hands of someone I barely knew. Watching someone else care for my baby while I sat by, fighting my feelings of jealousy and helplessness, was something I couldn’t have prepared for.
But I am so thankful that you were there. I am grateful for the connection you established, the love you shared, and the tears you shed for my little one. I want to express my appreciation, even though words may never fully capture how much you mean to me.
Thank you for making me feel like my baby was important to you. I cherish the moments when you took pictures of my little boy, printed them out, and handed them to me. I loved how you decorated his room and made his bed feel special. You turned his first haircut into a cherished milestone rather than just another hospital task.
Even when I was anxious about his sleep schedule, I appreciated how you gave him your attention, playing with him at night when he was wide awake. I will never forget how you captured our first family photo together.
Your patience was truly a gift. You took the time to help me understand everything, answering my endless questions with kindness. I felt reassured knowing I could call you at any hour and that you would be there to keep me updated on my baby’s condition. You understood my mood swings and were patient with me, even when I felt jealousy toward the time you spent with my son.
Thank you for helping me feel like more than just a patient. The day you invited me to have lunch with you in the hospital cafeteria felt like a small slice of normalcy. I loved chatting about our families and felt a sense of connection with you. When you playfully told me, “You’re not allowed to come back until you go on a date with your husband,” I felt like I had your approval to take a break, knowing my baby would be in good hands during that time.
Thank you for being my teacher. You showed me, a young mom, how to change my first diaper. When we finally brought him home, I felt confident in my abilities thanks to your guidance on caring for him, from breathing treatments to checking vitals and breastfeeding. You turned my anxiety into newfound confidence.
Your empathy and comfort meant the world to me. You were real with me, sharing tears during setbacks and celebrating the victories. I will always remember the moment we stood together, arms wrapped around each other, watching as my son’s ventilator alarmed and his numbers dropped. Your calm presence during the chaos was a source of strength.
There are countless things I adore about you, but what I cherish the most is how you loved my baby. Thank you for everything.
From a NICU mom who will forever hold dear the memories of the sights and sounds, the love and laughter, and the compassion shared every time I look at my son.
“Sometimes the smallest things take up the most room in your heart.” – Winnie the Pooh
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