Let’s be honest, the term “push present” is just plain silly. I find it uncomfortable to even say, and honestly, it shouldn’t exist at all. Each time I write it, I want to put quotation marks around it, signaling my disapproval of this manufactured concept. Yet, here I am, compelled to recognize it.
I’m not exactly sure when the trend of push presents began, but it certainly gained traction after my first child was born over a decade ago. I suspect it has something to do with the influence of celebrities, particularly the Kardashians.
Here’s the reality: no one truly requires a gift for bringing a child into the world. Why? Because the child itself is the gift. After a lengthy nine months of meticulous planning, protective nurturing, and eager anticipation for the arrival of your delicate newborn, you receive the greatest reward of all—the baby.
The rise of push presents is peculiar because childbirth isn’t a business deal. The notion that a woman should be compensated for her role in bringing a child into the world reduces her to a mere hired hand, a vessel for delivery, rather than an equal partner in the journey. The sentiment behind creating a family—a love that drives two people to desire a child—gets overshadowed.
I’m not suggesting that women shouldn’t be appreciated or even celebrated for their incredible role in giving life. That’s a monumental task, and they deserve every bit of respect. However, demanding material goods in exchange for a child feels rather unseemly.
It’s not just the likes of Kim Kardashian, who famously asked for a million-dollar diamond choker after her son was born, that fuels this trend. Many expectant mothers are now seeking lavish gifts, from extravagant diamond rings to luxury vehicles. While such gifts may seem appealing, they risk trivializing a profoundly meaningful experience.
Instead of push presents, what mothers could genuinely benefit from is support. Babies are a tremendous amount of work. While celebrities may not face these issues, many everyday people do. Imagine if, instead of demanding gifts, women received equal partners who actively share in the monumental responsibilities of raising a child. While many fathers rise to this occasion, it’s undeniable that even today, women often shoulder the bulk of childcare duties. They’re the ones who wake up in the middle of the night, handle feedings, soothe a crying baby, and navigate the complexities of pediatric care.
When I welcomed my first child, a dear friend surprised me with a thoughtful gift during her visit. Along with a present for the baby, she handed me a cozy fleece top, comfortable lounge pants, and an array of scented lotions. I was genuinely touched. This wasn’t a “reward”; it was a meaningful gesture that acknowledged my needs. It reminded me that I still mattered amidst the chaos of new parenthood. That’s the kind of appreciation mothers truly need.
While a luxury car or a stunning diamond ring might be nice, they don’t quite hit the mark. Friends, family, and society as a whole could better express their gratitude and respect for new mothers through practical support and meaningful actions.
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In summary, while the idea of push presents may have gained popularity, it is essential to remember that the true gift lies in the child. Rather than focusing on material rewards, society should prioritize genuine support for mothers as they embark on the incredible journey of parenthood.