Updated: Dec. 19, 2023
Originally Published: Dec. 23, 2015
Hello everyone! I’ve created a brand new holiday, and I’d love for you to join in the celebration. Here’s a little poem I penned, titled “The Best Day of the Year,” to share what it’s all about:
You’ve cooked, you’ve cleaned, You’ve planned, you’ve dreamed To make the holidays bright. Now you're worn out, Caught in a rout Of things that were meant to bring delight. You need a break, A drink (and some cake). A little bad TV would be nice. Let the family feast on leftovers, While you indulge in Russell Stovers, And skillfully dodge all kid requests. “You got new toys yesterday!” “No cooking today!” The car keys stay put in your bag, No shower, no clothes—just comfy PJs, And your hair can sag. It’s December 26, Time to claim your fix Of lounging like the Queen of the Couch. The remote’s all yours, Into your glass, the wine pours. You’ve earned this day off, there’s no doubt.
Excited for Moms’ Day Off on December 26? I’ve been enjoying (or attempting to enjoy) this special day for about seven years now. Sometimes life gets in the way, but I always give it my best shot. I discovered this personal holiday after realizing that from December 22 to 25, I barely sat down. By the 26th, I was completely drained.
On my first Moms’ Day Off, I had a toddler and a school-aged child (plus a husband who was somewhere in the house). It took me nearly four and a half hours to watch Julie & Julia, but that day remains one of my favorites. Now, whenever that movie plays, I instinctively reach for the red wine.
My kids have developed a love-hate relationship with this day. Full disclosure: it might not help that I playfully remind them of my special day. “Want to watch something? Sorry, it’s Moms’ Day Off!” I’m chuckling just thinking about it!
Want to join the fun? Here are the guidelines:
- Mom is the supreme ruler of the remote from sunrise until bedtime (and it’s perfectly fine to doze off on the couch).
- The car stays in the driveway.
- Wine may be enjoyed starting at 11:30 a.m. (or even 11).
- No cooking allowed—leftovers or easy self-serve snacks only.
- Pajamas are the dress code (I was so committed to this last year that I showed up to a family event in my PJs and slippers).
- Naps are mandatory. Nap your heart out.
- Anyone who isn’t Mom can’t complain about anything. (This is often broken, but it’s worth a shot.)
Now, about dads joining in: it’s typically a mixed bag. If a dad has actively participated in holiday prep, he’s welcome. But if he’s been lounging around like he just materialized from thin air, he might want to reconsider his participation. If he does kick back on Moms’ Day Off, I can promise you that his partner may start daydreaming about putting a pillow over his head! (And yes, when the kids call “Mom!” on December 26, just translate that to “Dad!”)
Wishing you all a Merry Christmas and joyful holidays!
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Summary:
December 26 is designated as Moms’ Day Off, a holiday for mothers to take a well-deserved break from holiday preparations and enjoy a day of relaxation. The day includes specific rules such as being the boss of the remote, no cooking, and enjoying wine while lounging in pajamas. It’s an opportunity for moms to recharge and indulge in some much-needed leisure time.