I hope this message finds you well. I’m currently six months pregnant and navigating a new chapter in my life. Yesterday, I was laid off, which means it’s time to pull out my resume and start reaching out to potential employers.
This isn’t my first rodeo. Almost a decade ago, I faced a similar situation during the recession, so I know the steps to take. However, this time feels uniquely challenging. I have a lively two-year-old son at home and a baby on the way.
My initial reaction was a mixture of confusion and concern. Who would want to hire a pregnant woman about to embark on the whirlwind of diaper changes and sleepless nights? I completely understand how a hiring manager might view me as less than ideal right now. I’m aware of the laws that protect me from being asked about my pregnancy, and I’m not obligated to disclose it, but the visible signs of my pregnancy are hard to ignore.
I feel it’s important to mention my pregnancy during my job search—not out of obligation, but because it’s a significant part of my identity at this moment. If asked about my skills and passions, I would enthusiastically share my professional accomplishments, but I would also highlight my newfound ability to juggle prenatal appointments and toddler activities.
Despite the distractions and challenges, I remain dedicated to my profession and take pride in my work. However, I can’t deny that my focus is divided; I’m carrying two hearts, which makes it tough to commit fully to a new job.
Is it Fair to Seek Employment Now?
Is it fair for me to seek employment now? Perhaps not, especially considering the demands of a new role and the whirlwind of personal changes I’m experiencing. But life doesn’t always play fair, and bills don’t wait. My husband and I have financial responsibilities, and the energy company’s letters grow increasingly urgent.
I love being a working mother. While I cherish the time spent with my son, I also thrive on the excitement of my career. So, instead of putting my job hunt on hold until after the baby arrives, I’m diving in. I can hear the energy company’s reminders echoing in my mind.
What’s a Busy, Anxious Pregnant Mom to Do?
I’m grabbing a cup of decaf and revisiting a resume I haven’t updated in years. I plan to include skills like “expert multitasker,” “remains calm under pressure,” and “adept at handling unpredictable situations.”
For more insights on this journey or related topics, check out this blog post on home insemination. If you’re looking for a resource on pregnancy and insemination, the NHS offers excellent information found here. Additionally, for those interested in home insemination options, Make a Mom provides valuable insights.
In Summary
While I face the unique challenges of being a pregnant job seeker, I’m determined to find a position that allows me to balance motherhood and my career. Life’s unpredictability is daunting, yet it fuels my drive.