As I find myself exasperated, I often catch myself thinking, “How many times have I said this?” It’s a familiar refrain among parents, and yet, I realize I keep repeating it without a change in outcome. We’ve all heard the saying that doing the same thing repeatedly while expecting different results is a sign of insanity. Yet, here I was, trying to curb my toddler’s antics day after day, only to find the same outcomes.
Navigating the world of toddlerhood often feels like a quest for survival. Sometimes, it’s essential to prioritize and let go of certain skirmishes. Here are five battles I’ve decided to forfeit:
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“Don’t climb the slide.”
Every trip to the playground starts with this conversation.
Mom: “Please don’t climb the slide.”
Kid: “Why?”
Mom: “Because slides are for going down.”
But honestly, if climbing the slide brings joy and my child is still being considerate and taking turns, then let them have at it! Just don’t try that during a game of Chutes and Ladders. -
“Don’t draw on your hands.”
When my son picked up a crayon, I was thrilled, but it quickly turned into chaos. He soon wanted to decorate everything except paper, especially his hands. After scrubbing ink off his little fingers for the nth time before I could even enjoy my coffee, I surrendered. If he wants to be a walking canvas, so be it. We’ll just call it artistic flair. -
“Sit down and eat.”
I adore food and sitting down for meals, so I can’t understand why my toddler sees dining as a reason to run laps around the house. At this point, I’ve given up the fight. Sure, take a bite and then dash around the room! Meanwhile, I’ll just be here, enjoying the sweets off your plate. -
“Don’t make a mess.”
What is it about scattering toys that excites toddlers? Whenever my son is on a mission for a single toy, our living room ends up resembling a disaster zone. I’ve tried reasoning with him, but it’s as effective as convincing a teenager to tidy their room. Fine, kiddo! Your mess can cleverly disguise my lack of vacuuming. -
“That’s not what ___ is for.”
Yes, technically, couches are not for walking, and bubbles shouldn’t be poured everywhere, but this phase of exploration is crucial for toddlers. If my son wants to use his toys in unconventional ways, who am I to stop him? At least he’s enjoying himself, and I can avoid yet another discussion about why mommy’s bras aren’t for wearing on your head.
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