When I think about my five-year-old daughter, I usually picture her fretting over lunch choices or hunting for those elusive Shopkins toys, which seem designed to drive parents crazy. But recently, she surprised me with a profound question:
“Mom, why am I here? What’s my purpose? Why do I exist in this world?”
Her words caught me off guard. “This world”? What other realms was she aware of? Do I need to catch up on the latest sci-fi films? As I processed her question, I felt a mix of confusion and concern. It was heartbreaking to see her grappling with such heavy thoughts, especially when they kept her awake at night. I can relate to her anxiety; I, too, have moments where life’s uncertainties keep me tossing and turning. When I can’t find rest, I often seek comfort from my partner, grateful for his presence. But how can I reassure my little one about a world that feels so daunting?
The night she asked me her question, fresh from the bath and looking adorable in her princess pajamas, I was momentarily speechless. How could a five-year-old ponder such deep topics? But clearly, she was. I suspect she takes after me—a natural overthinker. I remember being a child, waking up in a panic, wondering about eternity, and ultimately deciding that the idea of forever was terrifying. I’d sneak down the hall to my parents’ room, where my father was blissfully unaware of my worries, while my mother would gently shoo me back to bed, her voice soft and sleepy.
As I reflected on those memories, I felt a rush of empathy for my daughter. She’s still so new to school and life, yet she’s already facing the most challenging questions.
Why are we here? What’s the purpose?
I wish I could provide her with clear answers, but the truth is, the confused child I once was has evolved into a woman and a mother who still lacks certainty. I grew up clinging to beliefs, hoping for clear answers, yet here I am, still navigating the murky waters of faith and doubt, longing to find the good in the world.
In the moment, as her innocent eyes searched mine for reassurance, I shared the only comforting thought I could muster, something I hoped would resonate with her. I told her that she is here because we needed her to love us. That her existence brings joy, and that the world needed someone like her to spread love.
I explained that she’s here to love her family, her friends, and even the simple pleasures like cookies, hot chocolate, and fun vacations. The essence of life, I told her, is really about love—giving it and receiving it. What more could I say? I wish I had all the answers, but in the midst of my uncertainty, the notion of love stands out as a guiding principle.
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In summary, when faced with profound questions from children, it’s essential to respond with love and reassurance, even if the answers aren’t entirely clear. Life is complicated, but love remains a simple, guiding force.