Dear Little Buddy,
As we eagerly anticipate the arrival of your baby sibling, I wanted to take a moment to share some thoughts with you. You’ve been an amazing first child, and I know this new addition will bring both excitement and some changes to our family dynamic. I can’t help but think about how you might be feeling about sharing your space, toys, and, most importantly, our love.
First off, it’s wonderful to see your enthusiasm for “our baby.” Sure, it’s a bit amusing that you refer to your sibling that way, but I’ll leave the deeper implications for you to unpack with your future therapist. Your mom and I are beyond thrilled to watch the bond you two will develop—companions, rivals, and hopefully best friends as you grow up together.
Now, I want to reassure you about a few things. While I wish I could promise that nothing will change, I can assure you that our love for you is unshakeable. You will always be our son, and that will never change. However, with a new baby joining us in January, life will inevitably be different in many ways.
You might feel a bit anxious about this change, but there’s no need to worry. You’ve never lived with a baby before, but trust me, you’re going to handle it just fine. In fact, we are counting on your help!
Jealousy is another feeling that might creep in. I can’t predict how it will feel to parent two children, but I’m confident that my heart will expand to accommodate you both. You can rest assured that our love won’t diminish, no matter how many siblings you have—this one will be the only one! Plus, as the firstborn, you have a special place in our hearts.
You may also feel scared of what’s to come. Remember, change is a natural part of life, and while you won’t be the baby of the family anymore, you’ll always be our little guy. We’re excited for you to embrace your new role as a big brother. It will teach you so much about love, protection, and even a little bit of patience when it comes to sharing affection and attention.
Regardless of how chaotic things may get—whether it’s toys being shared, late nights, or a little more noise in the house—our love for you will remain steadfast. The arrival of your sibling won’t change the fact that you are the center of our universe.
So, take a deep breath and relax. There’s nothing for you to worry about; that’s my job. We’re all going to be just fine.
Love,
Dad
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In summary, while welcoming a new baby will bring changes, our love for you will never waver. You’re going to thrive in your new role, and we can’t wait to watch you grow.