Parenting can sometimes put us in tricky situations, and I’ve found myself in a few recently where I was unsure about the right course of action. For example, there was a moment when one of my children was accidentally hurt by a friend’s child—hit in the head with a rock. Should I say something? I hesitated because I knew it was an accident and the other child felt terrible. Ultimately, I didn’t speak up.
In another instance, I learned from a mutual acquaintance that their teenage child was involved in some potentially harmful and illegal activities. This news was concerning, especially since I would want to know if my own child were in a similar situation. The dilemma of whether to intervene or stay silent can be overwhelming.
I believe many parents face these uncertainties. So, let me be clear: If my child behaves inappropriately or is causing trouble, I want you to inform me.
If my child throws a rock and accidentally injures someone, please tell me, regardless of intent. If I hear my child speaking disrespectfully, or engaging in substance use, I expect to be informed. If you suspect my child is frequenting places without permission, or if you overhear rumors about them, I want you to speak up.
Should you notice my child has lied to me, or if they are bullying others, please don’t hesitate to reach out. It’s vital for me to know if my kid is crossing boundaries, whether it’s using inappropriate language, associating with questionable individuals, or even if they are being outright rude.
And on a personal note, if you ever find me in an embarrassing situation—like having a visible booger, a malfunctioning zipper, or my mascara running after a rough day—I would appreciate the heads-up.
If you think something is off, even if it’s not on this list, just let me know. You can start by saying, “Hey, remember when you mentioned you wanted me to tell you if your kid was acting up?”
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In summary, open communication is key in parenting. I value honesty and appreciate any feedback—whether it’s about my child’s behavior or my own little mishaps. Please don’t hold back; it’s all part of the parenting experience!