When parents eagerly anticipate the arrival of their new baby, they envision countless joyful moments: the first time they hold their child, watching them grow and learn, and celebrating milestones like birthdays. Unfortunately, some families face the unimaginable heartbreak of saying goodbye to their children far too soon. A talented photographer beautifully documented one such fleeting life through a series of touching images that captured a family’s two days with their baby girl before her passing.
Photographer Mia Carter, known for her work with Moments Photography, tells the story of little Emma Collins and her loving family, including parents Rachel and Mark, along with her four older siblings. Emma lived for just two and a half days, and although her third anniversary of passing was earlier this year, her family continues to honor her life and celebrate her birthday with love and remembrance. Rachel and Mark’s journey through the joys and sorrows surrounding Emma’s birth is both heart-wrenching and inspiring, showcasing the profound love that transcends even the shortest of lives.
In a heartfelt blog post, Rachel recounts how after relocating to Oregon and finding an obstetrician for her final month of pregnancy, the family received devastating news. Emma had been diagnosed with either Trisomy 18 or Trisomy 13—both of which are typically fatal conditions. Despite these bleak statistics, Rachel felt a strong sense of hope that Emma would be born alive. Her instincts proved true, and Mia captured the precious moments of Emma’s brief time on earth in stunning photographs that reflect the beauty and love that surrounded her.
One particularly moving image shows Emma’s siblings meeting her for the first time. Mia described the moment, saying, “Each child expressed their emotions in unique ways, and it was an honor to capture their first interactions with their little sister.”
When Emma’s time came to an end, the family chose to remove her from life support and moved to a peaceful room where they could cherish their final moments together. Rachel shared that Mark took the older children home to bed while she had some quiet time alone with Emma. “It was incredibly beautiful and precious. I would do it all over again if I could,” she reflected.
A remarkable aspect of the Collins family’s experience is how they celebrated the birth of their daughter and included their older children in the process. In times of deep sorrow, it can be easy to be overwhelmed by grief, but Rachel and Mark decided to focus on celebrating Emma’s life, however brief. “We often think of her and shed tears, but there’s no bitterness left in our hearts. We choose to celebrate her existence and the spirit that continues to live on,” Rachel said.
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In summary, the Collins family’s story of love, loss, and celebration serves as a poignant reminder of the impact a brief life can have. They choose to honor their baby girl, Emma, by remembering her each year, finding solace in their shared memories and the love that binds them.