Let’s take a moment to discuss what it means to “fail.” I won’t delve too deeply into the exhausting struggles we faced while trying to teach our son, Max, to sleep soundly in his own bed. Imagine pushing a massive boulder uphill only for it to roll back down, crushing you in the process. That was our journey.
Eventually, Max did learn to sleep through the night—only for circumstances to shift. After a bathroom renovation nearby and his first bout of illness, he found his way back into our room. It wasn’t long before he was snuggled up in our bed again. Many consider this regression a significant failure, and some even label it unsafe.
Here’s the twist: co-sleeping feels incredible. It’s a bit like the allure of something addictive; people seek it out because it brings joy. While I’m no expert on addiction, I can tell you that the experience of giving up on strict sleep training has turned out to be one of the best decisions of my life.
When this little bundle of joy, with his wild hair and carefree spirit, returns to sleep nestled between my partner and me, it’s like stepping back into paradise. The innocence of a child’s slumber is a rare gift. Hearing the soft snores of someone who hasn’t yet tasted the bitterness of life’s complexities is a treat. Waking up to Max’s bright smile, a smile that needs no reason, is a daily reminder of the beauty in simplicity. And let’s be real; the kid looks good in anything simply because he doesn’t care about appearances.
In those quiet moments, you might find yourself reflecting on your younger years—those nights spent in vibrant bars, art openings, and glamorous parties. Yet, as you lie there in the warmth of your family, you realize there’s no other place you’d rather be.
You discover the antidote to your worries lies in the uncomplicated joy of sharing a mattress with your son and partner. Outside, the city pulses with life as millions chase after what you’ve already found—a small slice of happiness.
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Summary
The journey from sleep training to co-sleeping may be deemed a failure by some, but it can also be a profound experience. Embracing the joy of having your child snuggled next to you can offer unexpected happiness and a sense of peace amidst the chaos of parenthood.