Pregnancy is a beautiful journey, but it can also be a challenging time for both partners. Having experienced pregnancy firsthand, I can say it often feels like a rollercoaster of emotions. My partner, Alex, had his fair share of missteps during my two pregnancies. Here are ten tips on what to steer clear of if your partner is expecting:
- When your partner mentions, “I think I’m pregnant,” resist the urge to blurt out, “But I wanted that new gaming console!” Trust me; it won’t go over well.
- Be encouraging, not controlling. Yes, you’re both becoming parents, but if your partner craves an entire jar of pickles, let it be.
- Avoid making comments like, “Wow, it looks like there’s a little alien in there!” We already feel the strangeness of pregnancy without your reminders about how unusual it can be.
- Don’t assign your partner as the designated driver for nights out with friends. We didn’t sign up for nine months of dealing with tipsy individuals.
- Please refrain from giving unsolicited advice, whether it’s about clothing choices or dietary restrictions. We have enough people weighing in—what we truly need are your soothing massage skills.
- Never say, “But you love sushi! Are you really not going to eat it?” The answer is no. If you cook it in the house again, I might just reconsider this whole partnership.
- Avoid suggesting that some exercise will help alleviate discomfort. For pregnant individuals, a trip to the bathroom can feel like a marathon.
- When your partner asks, “Want to feel the baby kick?” don’t hesitate. Say yes every time, even if it feels strange to you.
- Don’t joke about weighing the same as your partner and laugh. If mobility allowed it, they might just give you a playful jab.
- Lastly, prepare for tears. Whether it’s from commercials, cereal, or a simple hug, emotions will be all over the place. It’s a normal part of the process, so don’t panic—things should smooth out eventually.
There’s plenty more to share, but with two kids running wild, my time is limited. Pregnancy is just the beginning of a thrilling, albeit messy, adventure. For more insights on this journey, check out this resource for home insemination. Also, if you’re curious about artificial insemination options, visit Cryobaby for expert guidance. Finally, for comprehensive information on pregnancy, MedlinePlus is an excellent resource.
In summary, navigating pregnancy can be tricky, but being mindful of your partner’s experience can make all the difference.